Get your Health question answered in 3 easy steps
A Doctor will be with you shortly
Ask a Doctor Now
181 Doctors are Online

What causes loss in libido? - Online Doctor Chats

Date : 06-Nov-2014
User rating for this question
Very Good Posted in: Sexual Health
Answered by

General & Family Physician
Practicing since : 2004
Answered : 1777 Questions
User:hello
Doctor:
Please proceed with your query
User:very personal thing
Doctor:Ok
User:which i have never discussed with anyone so far
Doctor:Ok
User:I have no knowledge on sex before marriage.
User:got married 6 years back
Doctor:Ok
Doctor:Ok
User:i am not able to make my partner happy
Doctor:Ok
User:this is my personal opinion
Doctor:Ok
User:since he never shows interest, i feel so
Doctor:Ok
User:i am trying my best
Doctor:Ok
User:what should i do?
User:we both discussed about this
User:he also cant give any suggetion on that
User:i do not say that he is completely unhappy
User:since he is not showing interest much
User:i am worried
Doctor:Now I would like to know you do not have interest because he does not show interest
Doctor:?
User:i have interst
Doctor:Ok
User:he is not showing much interest towards it
Doctor:How often you both have intercourse
User:once in a month or
Doctor:Since when it is happening like from beginning or started recently?
User:beginning only
Doctor:Ok do you have kids?
User:yes
User:5 yrs old
Doctor:Good
User:i am only showing interest
User:he never feels so
User:but whenever we do it
User:will do it happily
Doctor:I would like to give you some suggestions first discuss with him about his work or is he having any stress?
User:only thing i want to create interst on him
User:ofcourse
User:we both have so much of stress
Doctor:Ok
User:we know each other better
User:beyond our stress etc., i want he to give some importance to it
Doctor:because of stress or tiredness he must be not showing interest
User:we discussed enough times about his
User:this
User:how to make him understand
Doctor:Better you spend time with him weekends when you get time
User:yes we do that
Doctor:foreplay will help you
User:means?
Doctor:Ok I will tell you
Doctor:Foreplay like romance before interourse
Doctor:Better avoid direct vaginal intercourse without foreplay
User:ok
User:to do so he has to show his interest
Doctor:For that he has to reduce his stress levels
User:hmm
User:any other sugestion
Doctor:Some medications and watching romantic movies help you
User:what type of medication
User:i like him so much
User:i want to make him happy
User:in everything
Doctor:Like viagra
User:what is that
User:how to use it
Doctor:It increases sexual desire
User:where is it available
User:how to use it?
Doctor:You can get it primary doctor prescription
User:is it a powder / tablet?
User:dosage and other things?
Doctor:It is a tablet, but he can get this medication from local doctor prescription
User:what is primary doctor prescription?
Doctor:Dosage will be decided by doctor
Doctor:i mean consult a local doctor for medication
Doctor:First you try my suggestions if it will not work then consult a doctor and get medications
Doctor:Are you there?
Doctor:or you can consult a sexologist
Doctor:These are prescribed medications
Doctor:Are you there?
User:yes
User:i am just thinking
User:thanks a lot
Doctor:Ok OK
Doctor:Do you have any more queries?
User:no thanks
Doctor:Thanks for visiting me here. Bye for now.
Doctor:Hi, I am Dr. Bhagyalaxmi Nalaparaju.
Please proceed with your query
User:is any dermatologist available?
Doctor:I am a General Physician, I believe I can help you within my expertise and If required I shall recommend a specialist.
Doctor:No currently dermatologist not available
User:ok
User:its a common query
Doctor:ok
User:i have dandruff
Doctor:Ok
User:tried couple of things at homw
User:home
User:still its not working
Doctor:Ok
User:which shampoo i can use for it
Doctor:What measures you have tried?
User:or any other suggestion
User:sour curd / onion juice etc.,
Doctor:Ok
User:home remedies
Doctor:Ok
User:i do not want to use any chemical related stuff
Doctor:I suggest you Ketoconazole 2% (Nizral sahmpoo) specially for dandruff
User:tried long time back
User:dint work out
User:hair fall is also more
User:ofcourse i have lot of stress at work and house
User:still....
Doctor:You can try now, apply it over scalp and wait for 2 minuutes and wash off or you can try head shoulder anti dandruff
Doctor:Do not apply oil all the time
User:no i do not
Doctor:just apply one hour before shower
Doctor:Ok good
User:just before headbath i will appy oil
User:and leave for few hours and wash every week
Doctor:Apply one hour before
User:ok
Doctor:Ok wash with nizral every alternative day or thrice a week
User:any other suggetion
User:for hair fall
Doctor:I also suggest you BIOTIN FORTE 10 mg once daily
Doctor:for 2 months
User:is it tablet?
Doctor:How many number of hairs fall per day?
User:lot
Doctor:Yes it is tablet
User:never counted
Doctor:Ok no issues
Doctor:You can get this tablet at local pharmacy
User:thanks
User:is it for dandruff or hairfall?
Doctor:it is for hair fall
Doctor:also check your hemoglobin
User:ok
User:thanks a lot
Doctor:Do you have any more queries?
User:one more query
User:i have got tummy
Doctor:Ok please proceed
User:visible tummy
User:after delivery
Doctor:Ok
User:how to reduce that
User:i am not over weight and all
Doctor:for that you have to abdominal exercises and you should maintain your diet
Doctor:Good
User:i could see result for few days
Doctor:do not sit or lie down immediately after food walk for 10 minutes
User:again it is back to normal
Doctor:Ok
User:i do lot of work at home
User:do not have servant also
User:walk for 3 - 4 kms a day
User:still i have
Doctor:It is good thing
User:this came after my delivery
Doctor:Do not eat anything 2 hours before bed
Doctor:It happens
User:yep
Doctor:after delivery
User:its visible more if i wear formal shirts
User:but i cant avoid those for meetings
Doctor:Better do abdominal exercises for 20 mins a day, do eat small meals
Doctor:do not eat large meals
User:i cant have heavy meal
Doctor:Eat small amount of food 4-5 times a day
User:i am used to eat small portions for few times
User:from childhood
Doctor:Good
User:still...
Doctor:Then only abdominal exercises will help you, avoid sitting after food
User:ok
User:thanks a lot
Doctor:Do you have any more queries?
User:no thanks
Doctor:Thanks for visiting me here. Bye for now.
© Ebix, Inc. All Rights Reserved.
All the information, content and live chat provided on the site is intended to be for informational purposes only, and not a substitute for professional or medical advice. You should always speak with your doctor before you follow anything that you read on this website. Any health question asked on this site will be visible to the people who browse this site. Hence, the user assumes the responsibility not to divulge any personally identifiable information in the question. Use of this site is subject to our Terms & Conditions
Already Rated.
Your rating:

Ask a Doctor