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Ways to improve sexual life - Online Doctor Chats

Date : 13-Jan-2012
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Very Good Posted in: Women's Health
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User :   hello doctor
Doctor :   hi
Doctor :   how can i help yu
User :   whatz your name
User :   I am 23 years old
User :   married
Doctor :   Dr
Doctor :   yes put the query
User :   i got recently married
User :   my husband s name is AAAAAAA
Doctor :   Ok
User :   i have prob during sex
Doctor :   For Administrative and health purposes, Please provide these details of the patient-Age: Gender: Occupation: Location: Marital Status: Weight and Height: Dependents: Yes/ No.
User :   23,female.professional,, 5'3 and 55
Doctor :   Ok
Doctor :   Continue
Doctor :   With the problem wiht the sex
User :   it happens because i m bit shy for everything and possess less knowledge and husband is too intense about all this
Doctor :   Ok
Doctor :   I am here to clear all your doubts
Doctor :   regarding the sex
User :   thanks
Doctor :   If yu can put one by one
User :   i wanna plan for kid how do i do
Doctor :   Look there is nothing you should fear about sex
Doctor :   You can plan for the kid when ever you couple wish to have oe
Doctor :   one
Doctor :   You can discuss amongst your self
Doctor :   But medically I would say you should complete your family before you complete 29 to 30 years
User :   ya i have already discussed this thing with him i.e whenn i attain the age of 26 but what will be the impact os having sex on this..
Doctor :   Sex has no impact on anything
User :   k
Doctor :   You can pleasureble have at any age
User :   i don no how to put the question before u, may be i will personally meet a female doctor
Doctor :   That is fine
Doctor :   You can choose whatever yu want
Doctor :   But what I wanted to say is communication is of paramount importance between couples
Doctor :   to enjoy the life at any place
Doctor :   so always stay in touch with each other and understand each one
Doctor :   Ok
Doctor :   Is there any thing else that I could help you with?
User :   can u connect me to a female doc plea, plea dont take me in other sense i ll be more comfortable to explian her
Doctor :   yes
Doctor :   you can continue
User :   which doc. u will connect me to
Doctor :   I am Dr XXXXXXXX how can i help you
Doctor :   Can you be bit fast as I have other patients in the queue
User :   yes doc
User :   Right from beggining i was not comfortable with sex, i just hate the procedure
User :   but for now when m married and my hussy loves me beyond everything
Doctor :   that is natural
User :   and he is as simple and sweet and never had sex before
Doctor :   ok
Doctor :   If your husband loves you beyond everything he should be fair enough with yur likings and dislikes
Doctor :   The sex is not made instantly
Doctor :   Sex is a beautiful process that should be done by mutual consent and co operation
Doctor :   then the pain shall transform into pleasure
User :   and now when he comes to me and does it i lack the knowledge and m always scared of inserting his pennis in mine and i don even no what might happen so i make reasons and stop him
User :   but hi is giving time for me, but if i physically not satisfying him because i don no, he might not go to other women,
User :   plea plea help me out i even spoke to him v decided tom have a child at the 29 years now m 23
Doctor :   That is fine
Doctor :   You can delay in planning a family
Doctor :   Try to make love and not sex
Doctor :   try to pamper each other by not just penetrating
User :   he is bit fat and i m scared even his pennis will be n it will pain or it wont go in i will be embrassed
Doctor :   ask him his own intentions of sex how he wants to enjoy it
Doctor :   a healthy sex can be done by two people in any way
Doctor :   dont rush
User :   but i love him so very much can change anything and everything
Doctor :   into the procedure
User :   what procedure
Doctor :   the procedure of sex
Doctor :   just love
Doctor :   him
Doctor :   and it will finally transform into a pleasurable experience
Doctor :   the pain would be there in initial days
Doctor :   but later on it vanishes
User :   as mine is arrange marriage and i m a intovert kind of person i cant purforth all these questions to my hubby, but its natural he loves sex so much
Doctor :   that is what i say
Doctor :   Please talk to your husband
Doctor :   each and every minutee while he is home
Doctor :   discuss all the issues
Doctor :   and communicate with him yur wished
Doctor :   wishes
User :   i cant doc i tried many times
Doctor :   ask your husband to come on to the chat and spk to one of our doctor
Doctor :   and we will try to convicne him
Doctor :   you couple need counselling
Doctor :   you should try until yu suceed to put yur points across to yu husband
Doctor :   and gain his trust
Doctor :   there is no other alternative
Doctor :   Please fill the feedback form say done when done
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