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Date : 21-Feb-2012
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User : 32 years old male...think am suffering from Erectile Dysfunction or sort of. I can get erection normally and at will. However, when I try to penetrate, I lose it completely!!! I have tried Rekeweg Biochem medicines, Vita - EX Gold tablets, etc. Have also tried Viagra. In case of Viagra, I do get semi - hard erection while penetrating; but, am not able to ejaculate. I must also add that I am suffering from mental fatigue due to some personal issues in the family; though, doctor has confirmed that I am not into Depression as yet. As such, of the Clinical List for Confirmed Diagnosis of Depression, I do exhibit about 5 symptoms out of the 9 in the list. Please help. What should I do?
Doctor :   Hi
User :   hello...
Doctor :   Let me read what You have written
User :   ok...
Doctor :   How long have You been married?
User :   i must add that earlier i used to masturbate and view porn a lot. at many forums online, i have read that abuse or overdose of masturbation and porn also leads to loss of excitement and thus loss of libido / virility. hence, for the past 3 months, have stopped masturbating completely. though, i still watch porn sometimes...but that is once in 20 - 25 days. and yes, am married.
Doctor :   How long have You been married?
User :   for past 6 years. we had sex for initial a month or so...then there was no physical we have started again for the past 6 months.
Doctor :   Ok
Doctor :   I do not feel that masturbation has anything to do with
User :   basically, in the first month, i used to get nice erections.but, was having problems penetrating since wife used to feel lot of pain. then due to personal issues, lost interest completely in sex; but used to masturbate a lot. now we are trying to bear a child and hence started again. but, cannot penetrate at all. just lose the erection completely.
User :   then what is the matter? what should i do?
Doctor :   Ok depression is a cause of loss of errections
Doctor :   I think You should look into this aspect
Doctor :   Get an evaluation by a psychologist/psychiatrist
Doctor :   to find out whether this could be a cause of Your erectile disfunction
User :   well, if depression it is, then i should not have erection at all!! when i masturbate, i do get erections. though i must admit that while masturbating i am able to concentrate; but while having sex, my mind vears off.
Doctor :   It meansd that there is is a possiblity of You having performance anxiety
Doctor :   It would help If you relaxed Your mind before sex
Doctor :   Try breathing excersises
Doctor :   Yoga may help
Doctor :   also try to focus your mind elsewhere
User :   and how do i do that? coz there could be a point in what you are saying. for example, before when i used to masturbate a lot, i realized that i even lost morning erections. since the time i have stopped masturbating, my morning erections have returned and am very hard in the early morning.
Doctor :   plz wait
Doctor :   hi
User :   hello...
Doctor :   i want to get the clear idea
User :   ok...?
Doctor :   So you have problem with erections especially when penetrating
Doctor :   is that right?
User :   yes...exactly.
Doctor :   If the time is not enough can I call u?
Doctor :   If OK???
Doctor :   Ok
User :   ur number?
User :   ur full number?
Doctor :   This is purely performce anxity
User :   full name?
Doctor :   You are not able to penetrate but could masturbate for long time
Doctor :   DO you get erectipons before penetrating
User :   well...i can masturbate and i do get erections
Doctor :   Does the erections last longer? if so how long theyt last?
Doctor :   while masturbating
User :   at will. i mean if i stroke hard and fast, i do ejaculate. but i can fantasize at length and i remain hard.
User :   have only 2 minutes left...can you call me then?
Doctor :   Here,there are twi pproblems
Doctor :   1 not getting good erections
Doctor :   2 getting ere4ctions but ejaculating very early, may be in 2 min
Doctor :   Now tell me which one is your problem
User :   well. mine is 1....
Doctor :   while masturbating
User :   i never reach to the point of ejaculation while penetrating
User :   but while masturbating both are nota problem
Doctor :   So you penis is mostly flappy is tht right.
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