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Tension and stress causing erection difficulties during sex - Online Doctor Chats

Date : 13-Jan-2012
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User :   hi
User :   im 26 yrs old
Doctor :   hi
User :   i hv sexual problem
Doctor :   how can I help you?
User :   wen ever i try to make love with my partner i don't have much errection
User :   but wen other times im alone or wen i watch erotic types of movies i get gud errection
User :   *Erection
Doctor :   ok
User :   could you please tel me wat is wrong with me..
Doctor :   To get a more complete picture I need this information; Occupation: ; Location:; Marital Status:
User :   occupation: software professional
User :   location: bangalore
User :   marital status: single
Doctor :   ok
Doctor :   Have you had sex with anyone before- without a problem?
User :   no never
Doctor :   how often do you mastrubate?
User :   once a day..
User :   and dially.
User :   *Daily
Doctor :   ok- no erection problems during that/
User :   yes...!!
Doctor :   How amny times have you tried/ had sex with your partner?
User :   many time..
User :   10 to 12 times
Doctor :   problems every time?
User :   yes...!
User :   i would call it 50% of erection fm normal times
Doctor :   ok- sometimes you can get a little nervous when you are having sex for the first time
User :   yes evern i thought the same during first and second time.. but wen i tried again for more times i found the same problem..!
Doctor :   what you can try to do is watching an erotic movie together and foreplay before sex
User :   yes tried it too.. but then it gets erect for some times and falls again wen i try to put..
User :   im really worried..
Doctor :   ok..........
Doctor :   You will need to see a urologist for a physical examination then
User :   i read somewhere that extra fat reduces erection.. it this true..?
User :   im a well built athletic
User :   but as now im in services i hv put on weight and little tummy have come
Doctor :   You will need to see a urologist for a physical examination then he will be able to suggest what you can do further
User :   hmm...!
Doctor :   lack of exercise/ smoking / drinking can alll reduce libido'
Doctor :   that is sexual urge
User :   previously i used to go for GYM.. but now i stopped
User :   ya.. i never smoke but drink ocationnally...
User :   but i think because of stoping exercise im turned to this..
Doctor :   try to relax your mind- if you are tensed and always worried about not getting an erection- it can have a negative effect
Doctor :   try to just spend some time with your partner- and get into sex if you are in the mood only- dont try to have sex for the sake of having sex
Doctor :   Is there anything else I can help you with?
Doctor :   Thanks for consulting Health care magic. Bye for now.
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