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Techniques to fix problem of early ejaculation - Online Doctor Chats

Date : 21-Feb-2012
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User :   Hi, i am having a small problem while having sex. I can only last 5 minutes during intercourse. I dont know what to do, should i take pills or are there other methods to make me last longer?
Doctor :   Hi
Doctor :   I am Dr. XXX
User :   Hello sir
Doctor :   I am reading your query , plz hold on
User :   Ok... thank you sir
Doctor :   For Health purposes please provide your Age, Gender
User :   I am 22/male
Doctor :   Occupation, Marital status
User :   XXX, XXX/Unmarried
Doctor :   OK
Doctor :   I need to ask you few questions and our interaction may take 15 to 20 more minutes.
Doctor :   DO you have strong desire to have an intercourse?
User :   Yes sir i do
Doctor :   OK
Doctor :   Does your Penis stiffer, stronger before penetration
Doctor :   Does your become Penis stiffer, stronger before penetration
User :   Yes ofcourse... it become strong and hard easily
Doctor :   O
Doctor :   How long that stiffness last?
Doctor :   *OK
User :   I cannot be too sure... i can last long if we do it only with oral, but when the intercourse happened i came only in 5 mins....
Doctor :   I have specific Question... ARe you loosing the erections easily or
Doctor :   are you getting the ejaculations easily?
User :   I ejaculate easily and once i ejaculate i lost my arousal instantly
Doctor :   From the history what you have told me, the most probable problem is ejaculation problem
User :   Exactly
Doctor :   I have some tips for you.
User :   Tell me please
Doctor :   Hope you do not have any medical problems?
Doctor :   Are you feeling anxious about intercourse before you act?
User :   I dont have medical problems.. sir
User :   And yes i am anxious about intercourse
Doctor :   Are you under stress?
Doctor :   Are you taking any medicines?
Doctor :   Sleep eight to ten hours daily.
User :   I havent taken any medicines and i sleep 8 -10hrs
Doctor :   OK
Doctor :   Avoid overworking.
User :   Should i take these sex pills they are selling in drug stores? Can i trust these medicines?
Doctor :   No
Doctor :   The herbal medicines are not useful. They are just marketing tactitics
User :   Then what should i do..?
User :   Im sorry to be rude sir but my time is running and i got only 30mins chat time here
Doctor :   Ok
User :   Can u please tell me what to do for me to last longer?
Doctor :   I understand
Doctor :   There are some techniques
Doctor :   I can gives you some technioques
Doctor :   You need your patrtner cooiperation
Doctor :   Masturbation to prevent premature ejaculation
Practice different methods by yourself. Getting to know your feelings and sensations gives you the chance to gain confidence.
Remember getting good at sex and overcoming premature ejaculation can take a bit of time. Practice makes perfect. If you find that things are not improving then help is available from sex therapists who are experts in this field.
Doctor :   More Foreplay prevents premature ejaculation
Stimulate your partner to a state of high arousal before you have your genitals touched, that way ejaculation and orgasm can be achieved about the same time.
Doctor :   Self Distraction to prevent premature ejaculation
If your arousal levels are getting too high and a climax is beginning, take a deep breath and think about something else, something very boring if possible.
When you are less aroused but maintaining an erection you can then continue.
Doctor :   Are you there?
User :   Yes i am here sir
Doctor :   Do you understand the techniques
User :   I think so
Doctor :   Ok read carefully
User :   Even after i foreplay my partner alot before intercoursing.... she cannot ejaculate or maybe i just ejaculate too early
Doctor :   u should not ejaculate
User :   To make her ejaculate i have to play her with my hands after i ejaculate and thats how we have done it for the past year and i dont think this will be fair for her in the long term
Doctor :   early
Doctor :   Do this for certain time
Doctor :   untill u get practice and self control
Doctor :   Discuss with ur partner
User :   Sir, do u belive that i lack something? Maybe vitamins? Proteins?
Doctor :   I do not think so
Doctor :   It is more about self control
Doctor :   These techniques will make you self control
User :   Ok i will try these techniques and also sir
User :   Do u know any sex therapists i can chat online to? Id be very thankful if you can suggest me one
Doctor :   If these does not work , I recommned you consult sexologoist and he will hel ypi better
Doctor :   *help
Doctor :   Thank you for consulting
User :   Sir can u suggest me one sexologist i can consult?
Doctor :   Where do you live?
User :   I live in india
Doctor :   City?
User :   I mean i can consult in online chat like i am doing with u now
User :   XXX
Doctor :   where i XXXXXX?
User :   XXX, sir
Doctor :   if the times is out, I will sen d by email
Doctor :   OK
Doctor :   Ok
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