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Date : 21-Feb-2012
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Doctor :   Hi
User :   Hi doctor
User :   3 days back i went to a massage palour , a female gave me a massage and a first blowjob (which i did not ask for) , for 5 mins without condom and then blowjob with condom for 10 mins
No sexual intercourse
Now there are 2 problems
A. AIDS/HIV/STD suspectance
1. i consulted a STD specialist he said that , i dont have any broken skin/cuts so there is remote chance , i did a HIV test , Turned neagative ..
I heard that HIV needs incubation time , I feel guilty and have fear now , what are the symptoms ?
2. I can assure will never have any such behaviour on future , will exercise and yoga help prolong incubation incase i am affected ?
3. My parents are arranging for my marraige , now will i infect her ?
B. Dettol problem ?
1) .I got a inch fter condom usage so i cleaned with undiluted dettol , the skin got reddish and i got fever , doctor said its 2and degree burn and prescribed
HHHZOLE (memotazone furoate and Clotrimazole) cream and DOLO 650 , what should i have for faster recovery ?
User :   Hi doctor
Doctor :   Please give me few secs . to go through your query.
User :   fine
Doctor :   Ok
Doctor :   I have gone through
Doctor :   May I ask you a few more questions to help you better.
User :   sure
Doctor :   May I know when you had the massage ?
User :   3 days back
Doctor :   Ok.
Doctor :   As you have said , it needs an incubation time of minimum 2 months.
Doctor :   So you need to do a HIV,HEP.B Test only after 2 months, before that there will be false negatives.
User :   i am not able to sleep nowadays and not able to carry on a normal life
User :   is there any symptoms
Doctor :   Let me answer your 1st query.
User :   ok
Doctor :   1. Please be patient and do not panic as you have 99.9 chance of being negative.
Doctor :   2.Only 0.1% is the chance to get HIV +ve or even lesser.
User :   so after 2 months i turn neagtive then i should not be scared of anything rt ?
Doctor :   May I know when is your marriage scheduled ?
User :   in 3 months
Doctor :   Ok.
Doctor :   So dont worry.
Doctor :   Go ahead with your arrangements .
User :   ok
User :   any symtoms i should be aware of
Doctor :   3. Dont worry, if you are tested negative in HIV-ELISA , then probably you would be negative almost 100%.
Doctor :   HIV - Symptoms : Doctor :   1. fever prolonged
Doctor :   2. loss of weight
Doctor :   3. loss of apetite
Doctor :   4. uncontrolled watery diarrhea
Doctor :   5. skin infections or lung - opportunistic infections
Doctor :   6. respiratory tract infections
Doctor :   these are all due to low immunity status.
Doctor :   Regarding your Skin burn on the penis : User :   symptoms will start in a weekor so or if infected will start after 1 month or after incubation ?
User :   please educate ?
Doctor :   Usually it takes time 6 months , it depends on the immunity status of the individual,
User :   oh ok
Doctor :   If infected and tested positive with HIV, AIDS may start after 3m,6m,1yr in some depends on CD4 cell count.
Doctor :   Hope you have followed.
User :   yes
Doctor :   Let me tell you what exactly has to be done for testing for HIV -
User :   ok
Doctor :   1st Test HIV - ELISA after 2 months.
Doctor :   2nd Test HIV - ELISA after 6 months.
Doctor :   If positive in either of the one the go for confirmation test called WESTERN BLOT Test.
Doctor :   If negative in both you can be assured that you are safe.
User :   ok
Doctor :   But 1st test itself rules out 99% of the times,but this is the protocol we follow.
User :   ok
Doctor :   May I know your age please ?
User :   25
User :   i will follow as you said
Doctor :   Do you want me to go ahead with your burn problem .
User :   i am going to melbourne after 1 month
Doctor :   Ok.
User :   and my company will take a test
User :   in 30 days
Doctor :   Ok.
User :   incase i have it , will it be evident then ?
User :   no right ?
User :   or might be ?
Doctor :   In 30 days it is rare , but cannot rule out 100%, but is very rare.
User :   ok
User :   please move on to my burn problem
Doctor :   I feel the doctor treated you with the right medicine.
Doctor :   I just want to add that please rehydrate well.
Doctor :   Have lots of water,juices , more fresh fruits, veggies for better recovery.
User :   ok
User :   any better creams ?
Doctor :   Please do not use hot water to wash your private parts .
User :   how much does it take ?
User :   Ok , i cant it burns a lot
User :   how long does it take for recovery ?
User :   usually ?
Doctor :   It is a nice combination of Antifungal and Topical Steroidal cream.
Doctor :   That he has given you,
Doctor :   It usually takes at least 2 weeks for recovery , its a minimum time , and can take more to compltely heal.
Doctor :   And abstain from any sexual activity or even masturbation till it heals.
Doctor :   As skin takes to form a new layer in 15 days
User :   No No , I willl not and i cant ..
User :   I did series of wrong things ... life lesson
User :   ok , one more final confirmation , if my test turns negative in 2 months , should i go ahead with my marriage ?
User :   is there any chance that i will infect her
Doctor :   Dont worry, You might be well soon, and you may totally forget that something of this sort happened, Hope you come out clean out of this mess.
Doctor :   I feel its a big decision.
User :   me tooo :)
User :   so should i prolong my marraige for 6 months , confirm and go ahead ?
Doctor :   It depends on how you can manage yourself and everything else around you , family friends and especially the bride.
Doctor :   So I leave it to you.
Doctor :   Best after 6 months, Yes I would say that.
User :   will this burn affect any nerves and cause any issues ?
Doctor :   But you have to mangae everythinghas a psychological trauma. very well and maturely and so that no one
Doctor :   No, they are superficial, will no way come in your sexual life.
User :   Ok
Doctor :   See that you are stable, and convince evryone with a good alibi and keep everyone happy and avid wrong guessing or break up.
Doctor :   Take care.
Doctor :   Be confident .
Doctor :   And Thank you for consulting me.
User :   i cant reveal this with anyone
Doctor :   Bye for now.
Doctor :   Yes.
Doctor :   Dont reveal , too early
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