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Date : 08-Apr-2014
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Practicing since : 2003
Answered : 1563 Questions
User:i am anaemic
User:had blood transfusion done
User:and now unexpectedly iam putiing a lot of weight
User:i have a high stress job and life
Doctor:you may continue
User:going through a emotional turmoil
User:and increasing weight day on day
Doctor:Okay, I understand
Doctor:how do you want me to help you?
Doctor:what kind of information are you looking for?
User:she suggested me certain tests to know exact reason for weight gain
User:whether it is emotional/hormonal or medical
User:and we were checking if i have depression too or not
Doctor:what are your symptoms
User:so i dont know how to judge that
User:but i want help
Doctor:I can understand your problems
Doctor:I would like to help you in anyway possible
User:iam lazy all day,have swollen feet ,low energy ,appetiteand interest
Doctor:can you explain what you mean by low energy?
User:low energy means i feel tired and sleepy
Doctor:can you tell me more about your emotional problems please
User:i want to marry a boy and family is against it
Doctor:what is the reason for your family being against your choice?
Doctor:Oh, that
Doctor:I don't know what to say
Doctor:Indian parents should realize that their children are not their property
Doctor:and they have constitutional rights to marry anyone they wish once they are adults
User:i can understand but all this social drama is too much for me
Doctor:Why do you care about the society if the society does not want to give you the freedom you want and the freedom that is guaranteed by our constitution
User:i dont but they do
Doctor:In that case you will have to make them understand that it is your right and they don't get to decide
User:and i dont want to betray them or leave him too
Doctor:It is not betraying if you ask for your fundamental rights to be respected
Doctor:Are you financially independent?
Doctor:In that case you don't your parents approval to get married
Doctor:and they have no right to force you to do anything against your will
Doctor:the law is clear
Doctor:if your parents force you to marry someone else against your will, that is illegal
User:illegal but its matter of thier pride
Doctor:There is no pride in taking away the fundamental rights of your children
Doctor:they should be ashamed of doing that
User:its all taking a toll on me
Doctor:the society should be ashamed
User:they are not
Doctor:I know my dear
Doctor:I am living in the same country
Doctor:I understand the social problems of this country very well
User:its only him that inspires me to live everything else seems meaningless
Doctor:I can empathize with your problems
User:even my acheivements and job
Doctor:I can understand your situation
Doctor:only thing I can do is to motivate you to be strong
User:does stress causes hypothyroide
Doctor:if you are sure about living the rest of your life with the person you love, then you have only one option
Doctor:that is to refuse to listen to your parents
Doctor:and go ahead and get married to the person you love, in a court
Doctor:You are an adult now, you are not the property of anyone
Doctor:You don't have to listen to your parents
Doctor:parents can be wrong
Doctor:there is no rule that parents are always right
User:but i love them and want to convince them
Doctor:But, if you make that choice, you should be brave enough to face the consequences as well
Doctor:Try your best to convince them
Doctor:if you can, then it is good
Doctor:if they don't change their attitude then you will have to move on
User:doc i struggling for same since an year
Doctor:If they try to cause any problem, then you can take legal action against them
User:but things are such at times i feel like running away alone somewhere or just quit life
Doctor:Quitting is no solution to anything
Doctor:why do you have to die for other people being stupid
Doctor:You don't have to respect ridiculous beliefs
Doctor:That is your right
User:u sound more of social activist than a doctor
Doctor:I am doctor, and I care about my fellow citizens
Doctor:I care about your rights
Doctor:I care about yuor freedom
User:thanks but nobody else does
User:all our relatives are against me
Doctor:Then why respect their nonsense beliefs?
User:they even suggest my parents to lock me up and not allow to go and work
Doctor:If they don't care about your happiness, you don't have any obligation to care about their stupid beliefs
Doctor:You very well know that locking up someone is a cognizable offense
Doctor:meaning it is non bailable offence
Doctor:In my honest opinion, you should take legal help
Doctor:and also talk to a counselor/psychologist
User:my mamaji is sho in near by thana
Doctor:Please don't waste your life because of stupid religious beliefs
User:n ive lost all hope
Doctor:by legal help I mean hire a lawyer
User:ok il try
Doctor:You have no choice
Doctor:My only request is, don't waste your life, you only get one chance to live, that is it, fight against everything, don't give up your right to be a free person
User:sir its not that simpel
Doctor:Our constitution guarantees this right to you, and it is the duty of the entire country to protect your rights
Doctor:I know it is not that simple
User:but think i should try to fight back
Doctor:but at some point you have to realize it comes down to this
Doctor:This is the bottom line..
Doctor:your right to live
User:i guess yes
Doctor:You have to assert that
User:can i get back to u if i like
Doctor:If listening to your parents means that your will live a life without happiness or freedom, then that life is worthless
Doctor:and if that happens then the country should step in and protect you
User:i think it would be good confidence booster
Doctor:Yes, you can
Doctor:and you are most welcome to get back to me
User:what country sir,the only person who can do something for me
User:is me myself
Doctor:I completely agree with you
Doctor:it is you, it always you
User:thanks a lot good night
Doctor:only you can claim your freedom
Doctor:I am only saying the theoretical and legal part
Doctor:Please don't give up
Doctor:I am here to help you in any way possible
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