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Date : 21-Feb-2012
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Answered : 40 Questions
User :   hi doc. i masturbated with another guy. i am straight. is this normal. we infact masturbated each other.
Doctor :   Hi..
Doctor :   Dr
User :   hi doc
Doctor :   may i know your age please ?
User :   35
Doctor :   well such behavior is nothing to be concerned of
Doctor :   sexuality is a mind frame
Doctor :   and if you are attracted to women then you are 100 straight
Doctor :   many men have has some gay encounters and are perfectly straight
User :   i am attracted to women
Doctor :   well then dont worry
User :   i was afraid because it was my first experience with another man
Doctor :   like i said many straight men do have such encounters
Doctor :   and its just sometimes people experiment
Doctor :   thats does not makes you gay
User :   i guess i just wanted to experiment
Doctor :   well thats ok
Doctor :   no harm in it
Doctor :   dont worry and dont think about it
User :   i thought that if two men masturbate each other or together then that makes them gay
Doctor :   no its a mind set not what you do
Doctor :   sexuality lies in a person mind and your preferences
Doctor :   its not the actions that makes a man gay or straight
User :   i was also wondering why is it that at times men get turned on by other men?
Doctor :   are you in a relationship with a woman at the moment ?
User :   no
Doctor :   well i can assure you
Doctor :   if you are attracted to women you are not gay
Doctor :   but you can also be bisexual
Doctor :   where a person can have feelings for both sexes
User :   is being bisexual a bad thing
Doctor :   no not at all
Doctor :   its perfectly ok
Doctor :   dont worry
Doctor :   its just your choice
Doctor :   thats all
User :   do you think me being in a relationship with a female will make a difference
Doctor :   no it does not make any difference
Doctor :   if you are attracted to male and female its completely your choice and there is nothing wrong in it
Doctor :   hello
User :   i dont have sex doc. i masturbate frequently... is that ok
Doctor :   masturbation is completely safe and there are no side effects at all
User :   so u say that my experience with another guy is ok... nothing to worry about
Doctor :   i give you 100% assurance . its nothing to worry about at all.. what you have experienced is just based on curiosity and experiment . which is completely normal human behavior
User :   this bisexual feeling just came about..
Doctor :   thats ok many men have these feelings and it does not affect their lives in any way
User :   at what age do males can start having these feelings
Doctor :   it can happen at any age . usually men experience some of such feeling at young age more commonly seen in boarding school boys
Doctor :   but even adults too can have such feelings at any time of their life
Doctor :   the best is to accept them and not to think anything negative for them
User :   i am concerned . if a have a son someday, would he also be like me
Doctor :   no not at all
User :   doc, all theses questions and answer are all confidentially, i believe
Doctor :   i can assure you of 100 % confidentiality
Doctor :   its just between you and me
User :   thank you
Doctor :   and i want to guide you in the right way
Doctor :   dont worry what you did you have nothing to be ashamed off
Doctor :   just dont let it bother you
User :   ok. sometimes these feelings become too much, i dont know what to do or react
Doctor :   you need to sit down and just look deep in you
Doctor :   and like i said if you feel the urges are strong then you can be a bisexual
User :   and u say being bisexual is ok
Doctor :   its a choice we all make regarding our sexuality
Doctor :   and IF YOU are OK with it .. then thats what MATTERS THE MOST
User :   and what if we don't want to be that way
Doctor :   then you can control the urges
Doctor :   try not to think about them
Doctor :   avoid the thoughts
Doctor :   dont be in such situations where you are tempted to doing it
User :   i have tried but its difficult
Doctor :   it will take time and patience
User :   this may sound stupid... i dont understand why i be aroused by certain men only
Doctor :   like i said you are thinking too much on it
Doctor :   its not a issue and there is nothing wrong in finding men sexually attractive
User :   i am sorry if i am annoying u with my thoughts and questions. its just that i would like to get some clarity
Doctor :   no its ok
Doctor :   i can understand your concern
User :   my friend said me something... when he masturbates, he fantasises about men. is hat ok
Doctor :   yes thats ok
Doctor :   dont worry
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