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Sensitive and possessive about relationship - Online Doctor Chats

Date : 13-Jan-2012
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Practicing since : 2004
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Doctor :   hi
Doctor :   how can i help you?
User :   Hi Doc...iam new to this website...and i had a small query
Doctor :   ok
Doctor :   For Administrative and health purposes, Please fill these details -Age: Gender: Occupation: Location: Marital Status: Dependents: Yes/ No
User :   Age 26,Gender:Male,Occupation:Sales Manager,Marital Status: Single,Dependents:No
Doctor :   ok
Doctor :   please go ahead
User :   Doc iam into a relationship and iam very "Possesive" about my partner.Is this a medical situation?
Doctor :   ok
Doctor :   explain possessive
User :   As in all the time wondering what she is doin? is she cheating on me ? Lying etc etc...
Doctor :   ok
Doctor :   how long have you been in this relationship?
User :   we know each other for 4 years now doc...but we had broken up in between and we are like in n out of relationship.But we want to be with each other and get married eventually.But my possesiveness is spoiling it.
Doctor :   ok
Doctor :   do you have any other problems?
Doctor :   like stress
User :   i do take tension ...that is useles tensions and i do think a lot that is negative thoughts a lot
Doctor :   ok
Doctor :   the most common reason is stress
Doctor :   i suggest that you try to spend some quality time with your partner
Doctor :   also you try to relax daily by practising yoga or meditation
Doctor :   Do you smoke or chew tobacco/drink alcohol/Any illicit drugs/ betel nut chewing? If yes how much/how often?
Doctor :   are you there Harish?
User :   sorry doc iam here
Doctor :   ok
User :   yes i do smoke one or maximum 2 a day
Doctor :   the best way to overcome
User :   and yes doc we are trying to spend uality time with each other...but she works on a saturday also
Doctor :   possessiveness is trusting your
Doctor :   partner
User :   yes doc i do understand that..but building trust does not happen overnight right?
Doctor :   talk to her about your feelings
Doctor :   in a non confrontational way
Doctor :   as you have known her for 4-5 yrs
Doctor :   you know her well enough by now
User :   yes i do doc
Doctor :   yes
Doctor :   have confidence in yourself
Doctor :   and her'
User :   i do agree i lack self esteem n confidence
User :   i really appriciate ur time n hel doc
Doctor :   ok
Doctor :   Is there any thing else that I could help you with?
User :   one last question doc
Doctor :   ok
User :   i have heard hypnossis and self hypnossis helps u overcome possesiveness
User :   is it tru?
Doctor :   those methods are not really time tested
Doctor :   the best way to maintain a relationship is communication and trust
Doctor :   its natural to feel possessive about someone we love
User :   thank you so much for your help doc
Doctor :   ok
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