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Psychotherapy to overcome thoughts and feelings in mind - Online Doctor Chats

Date : 13-Jan-2012
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Very Good Posted in: Mental Health
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Practicing since : 2004
Answered : 40 Questions
Doctor :   hi
Doctor :   How can I help you?
User :   yes doctor how r u
Doctor :   I am Good thanks
User :   actually i was already talking with someone then it ask for payment
User :   so i hav to explain whole problem again or u r aware
Doctor :   No I am aware
Doctor :   Pl go ahead
User :   ok
User :   i need ur advise
Doctor :   What are the different situations
Doctor :   where she feels so
User :   like?
Doctor :   Can you give me two examples
User :   everywhere like with me ,with my family even her family
User :   actually our marriage was love marriage and that time there was so complication upto 2 years after marriage
User :   now almost is setteled
User :   but even today she thinks that time and upset
User :   not only that ,its just an example
Doctor :   IS she longing for children

Doctor :   Why did not you plan for one when she is 26 yrs already
Doctor :   A new member in family settles her emotional issues
User :   yah its true but problem was that coz our marriage also has some complications due to families and i was also not much setteled

User :   but now we r planning to do
Doctor :   How are you accomodating her in your busy schedules
Doctor :   Are you giving her enough time to listen to her
User :   she is just at home with Tv and internet and house hold things
Doctor :   That is why
Doctor :   She might be frustrated enough with the non living things
User :   i m giving her enough time to listen her but some times i also got irritated due to all same things
Doctor :   I understand
User :   but doctor while i was in delhi ,i also thought that she is just at home might be if she will at work then she will fine But NO
User :   she always thinks those thing from which she frustated
User :   i tried her so many times that flush out all the things from ur mind and be a happy life
User :   she do this but only for 2 days
User :   3rd day again same problem
Doctor :   Ok try to gift her what she likes by saying her, if you stop thinking about those
Doctor :   Try rewarding her
User :   i tried so many times
Doctor :   for the favorable things she does
User :   but after 2days everything is same again
User :   then i need u
User :   coz these things i already did but when i feel failure then i m talking to u
Doctor :   Ok
Doctor :   Did you seek a couple therapy
Doctor :   with a counsellor
User :   i didnt get u

Doctor :   There is something called Counselling

Doctor :   for couples
User :   ok

Doctor :   The counsellor calls each one
Doctor :   and then both of you together
Doctor :   and writes down the best thngs with you
User :   ok
Doctor :   and the areas where you hve to help each other
Doctor :   Might be she needs one
User :   but ow u can help here
User :   *how
Doctor :   I can give your wife a professional advice
Doctor :   on how to tackle such things
User :   should she come online?

Doctor :   Yes
User :   ok i m calling here to be online
User :   may i know ur name doctor
Doctor :   Dr
User :   coz i dont know nothing to whom i m talking
User :   r u a Psychologist
Doctor :   I am a General Practitioner, I believer I can help you in my expertise otherwise we can recommend a Psychologist
User :   ok
User :   but is it not possble that i can go with Psychologist
User :   so that it will easy for me
Doctor :   The psychologists are available with appointments only
User :   i am using this healthcare portal first time
User :   but i subscribe a package
Doctor :   Where do you live?
User :   so its doesnt mean that is appointment
User :  
Doctor :   What is the time there?
User :   1:00 pm
Doctor :   Ok
Doctor :   How is your wife normally
Doctor :   Is she physically fit
User :   yah
Doctor :   Was the thyroid profile done recently
User :   yes
User :   bfore 2-3 months
Doctor :   What for is it done?
User :   she was compalaining leg pains
Doctor :   Were her menstrual periods normal?
User :   yah
User :   sometimes delayed
User :   4-5 days
Doctor :   fine
Doctor :   Do you think that your relationship now can lead to dissatisfaction
Doctor :   and distress

User :   we both are fine in our repaltionship

Doctor :   Thats great

Doctor :   So you are bothered only about your wife's thoughts
User :   yes
Doctor :   about the previous conflicts
User :   actualy i dont like when she is crying n upset
User :   even today if anyone saying anything she mind evrything
User :   and she do 95%upset
Doctor :   So she is emotionally fragile
User :   yes
Doctor :   Then it is not the couple therapy that is required

Doctor :   she needs onsite psychotherapy
User :   but how onsite is possible
Doctor :   It is better done by a Psychotherapist
Doctor :   who examine the thoughts, feelings, actions and relationships
User :   doctor please dont mind can i hav chat with psychologist
Doctor :   We do not have a psychologist right now
Doctor :   Can I get back to you over an email
User :   yea sure but problem is this that this is 24 hours subsription
Doctor :   We can help you within this

User :   if healthcare dont hav psychologist then what it means
Doctor :   You can chat with the Psychologist
Doctor :   tomorrow before your time expires
Doctor :   As today is Sunday
Doctor :   We are not able to provide the Psychologist
User :   tomorrow in morning i ll be at work thats why i subscribe today
User :   why its 24 hours chat
User :   if u consider sunday
Doctor :   Ok, Can you login after 5 hours
User :   yah i ll online
Doctor :   yes
User :   sorry to talk like this but i think u r understanding my concern
Doctor :   We have General practitioners only on Sundays
User :   then for sunday ,healthcare stop subscription
Doctor :   Psychologists are the specialists available on weekdays

Doctor :   usually
Doctor :   There are many others patients who wish to chat with uys
User :   or put in terms & conditoions
Doctor :   We have hundreds of patients
User :   tahts fine
User :   then atleast we can find others ways to contact psychologist
Doctor :   Do not worry
Doctor :   You can speak to a Psychologist soon
User :   thanks
User :   i m realy sorry to talk like this
Doctor :   Fine
Doctor :   Thanks for consulting us now.
User :   thanks
Doctor :   Please get back to us in next few hours
User :   sure
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