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Psychological fear for ejaculation - Online Doctor Chats

Date : 21-Feb-2012
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User :   hello dr..its second time now?,,, i went with a girl...while initial kissing n cuddling.. i cud feel erection... bt when time came for main thing... my penis went down..... she sucked it for 15 mins... then also nothin . what should i do?
Doctor :   Hi,
User :   hello doc
User :   u read ma prob?
Doctor :   May i know your age ?
User :   23
Doctor :   And may i know whether have you been successful in previous attempts ?
User :   doc?? r u there?
User :   no.. nt even once
Doctor :   Ok, DO you masturbate o
User :   yeah alot
Doctor :   How frequent do you do that ?
User :   daily... 2 or 3 times
Doctor :   ok, Do you get good erections during masturbation ?
User :   yeah
Doctor :   then i would consider its due to psychological fear why you not having good erections while the actual play
User :   what kind of fear
Doctor :   there is no inherent physical problem in you
User :   what sud i do then?
Doctor :   an subconscious fear of failure or since its new the hesitation
Doctor :   yes, there are ways to over come it
Doctor :   and it is by Viagra
Doctor :   Take a tab for few beginning attempts , once you get the hold on it , you may not be needing the tab any more from then
User :   bt i dont wanna use it at such a young age
Doctor :   i agree with you , but once or twice will not affect by any means
Doctor :   instead it will help you go for it confidently
User :   ok do u think its becoz of masturbation
Doctor :   on the other hand i would suggest you to reduce the frequency of masturbation to twice or thrice weekly
Doctor :   no , not really due to over masturbation
Doctor :   but it can add up to this situation
User :   ok
User :   what else i can do beside viagra
Doctor :   foods like almonds will help here
User :   and?
Doctor :   have good energy food before the attempt
Doctor :   try using lubricants
User :   aree i didnt get erection only.... lubricants?
Doctor :   with lubricants mild erections also do work
Doctor :   and do massage the penis with DUROIL to increase the vasculature of the penile s\pongiosis muscle
User :   duroil whats that?
Doctor :   its an penis massage oil
User :   ok
User :   bt m really tensed right now
Doctor :   do not worry,
Doctor :   you are normal, if you go through one or two attempts successfully the next will be no problem
User :   today was second attempt of mine 2 lose virginity...n i failed
Doctor :   thats very normal, not every body will be successful in their start attempts
User :   i have deleted all porn from my pc..... i want to make it right
User :   i'll do anything...
Doctor :   needs not much except of some courage and confidence
User :   yeah that is correct.....
User :   i know that.....
User :   but still m scared
Doctor :   I am not surprised, as i told its common with every body
User :   is it?
Doctor :   yes,
User :   i do nt get mornin erections...also
Doctor :   reduce the frequency of masturbation it will surely help
User :   4m 2day m goin 2 stopp
Doctor :   not stop completely , but twice or thrice every week is what recommended
User :   ok i'll c 2 that...
User :   what else i can do.... n i forgot to tell i go 2 zim also
Doctor :   Do you mean Gym ?
User :   yeah... m vry frustrated right now
Doctor :   yes, its good to work out in Gym
User :   is that thing has anything to do withthis
Doctor :   no ,
User :   ok
User :   what else i can do?
Doctor :   Do take viagra in the first few attempts
Doctor :   do not get aroused anytime in the day if an attempt is planned
Doctor :   reserve it for the play
User :   hw long before i sud take that
Doctor :   1 hour before the attempt
User :   ok
User :   r u sure there is no other prob?
Doctor :   Yes, i am sure of it
User :   what if i get addicted 2 viagra
Doctor :   not at al , its not known to cause addiction
Doctor :   rather its opposite, you may be not willing in subsequent attempts
User :   i dont know?
User :   ok
User :   any other food beside almonds
Doctor :   Drumsticks
User :   drumsticks??
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