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Psychological disorder over sex - Online Doctor Chats

Date : 13-Jan-2012
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Practicing since : 2004
Answered : 40 Questions
Doctor :   hi
Doctor :   how can i help you?
User :   IS it a live chat ? or am i taking to a machine ?
Doctor :   n
User :   wht type of doctor r u ? i mean spl in wht ?
Doctor :   i am a general practitioner
User :   i need a physo doctor can u pls put some physo doctor online
Doctor :   we dont have the facility with us right now
User :   so how can you help me out ?
User :   yes.
Doctor :   ok
User :   how do u know ?
Doctor :   i didnt
Doctor :   i was just asking
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User :   can u help out a physological person ?
Doctor :   you
User :   yes
Doctor :   yes
User :   thank you
Doctor :   will try our best
Doctor :   please go ahead
User :   ok hear i go...
User :   i feel am sick of sex
User :   i am frm a strict family backgound
Doctor :   ok
User :   i always think of sex
User :   wht should i do to overcome this problem
User :   its very severe
Doctor :   For Administrative and health purposes, Please provide these details -Age: Gender: Occupation: Location: Marital Status: Dependents: Yes/ No.
User :   wht ?
Doctor :   your details?
User :   age 27
User :   working as software engineer
User :   single
User :   wht else more ?
Doctor :   no
Doctor :   there is nothing to feel taboo about sex
Doctor :   and it is also natural to think about sex
User :   let me exp u in detail
Doctor :   ok
User :   once in my childhood i slept as a normal child near my aunt she. her hand came on me in the sleep and i felt it so good that i did not even think that she is my aunt and i started having sex with her in the sleep....
Doctor :   ok
User :   when i see any lady i cant control mmy thinking
User :   i dont even think about relations and all
Doctor :   it happens sometimes
Doctor :   you just need to distract your self
User :   it went on it has become so severe that
User :   one day i slept with my mother normally but after some time whn i saw her i felt to have sex with her and i started rubing with her in the sleep only
Doctor :   ok
User :   it went so severe that i wanted to see her naked
User :   and one day i put my web cam and saw her naked and masturbated
Doctor :   you need to see a psychiatrist
User :   i think am in a serous problem doctor ple help me
Doctor :   and get counselling
Doctor :   i suggest that you try to distract yourself
User :   so cant you help me out
User :   distract how ?
Doctor :   yoga and meditation help
Doctor :   get interested in hobbies which have no relation to sex
Doctor :   play sports ang games
Doctor :   that way you can distract your self
User :   am not able to see clearly in any womens eyes and talk these days
User :   they are able to see whts goin on in my mind
Doctor :   try to view them as persons
Doctor :   instead of women
User :   any tips
Doctor :   try to get professional
Doctor :   whenever you are talking to women just try to focus on the issue on which you are tallikng to them
User :   once i slept wit my male frined also whn i was drunk
Doctor :   ok
Doctor :   did you have sex?
User :   yes
Doctor :   ok
User :   not like we get infected
Doctor :   try to get a hobby and activity
User :   it was like playing
Doctor :   try to concentrate on your work
Doctor :   practise yoga and meditation
Doctor :   also if this is not helping then you may need to consult a psychiatrist or a counsellor
User :   some times i feel so depresed tht i think i have made some mistakes in my life like sleeping with mother and all i think to end up my life
Doctor :   did you have sex?
User :   its like almost sex
Doctor :   thinking about sex
User :   i touched her
Doctor :   and having actual sex
Doctor :   are two different things
User :   first i thout to have sex
Doctor :   thinking about sex happens to many people
User :   whn i slept near to her i did not control my self
Doctor :   ok
Doctor :   there is a difference
User :   and after tht with a web cam i saw her totaly naked
Doctor :   ok
User :   and i masterbated see her
Doctor :   i suggest that you follow the techniques i told you
User :   is this wrong ?
Doctor :   try to engage yourself in activities
Doctor :   and then consult a psychiatrist
Doctor :   your behaviour can be controlled by
Doctor :   behaviour and psychiatric therapy
User :   and once i slept with my sister normaly after tht i lost my control and did on her orally in sleep
Doctor :   just be confident and have a strong will to get over your condition
Doctor :   i suggest that you consult a psychiatrist as this is happening repeatedly
User :   am trying to this things doctor but when ever i think abt past things i feel to end up
Doctor :   just tell yourself that you need to get over this condition
Doctor :   mistakes are made by everyone
Doctor :   just try to forgive yourself
User :   but can this mistakes also be made doctor ?
User :   sleeping wit mother
Doctor :   and tell yourself that you can get over this easily with help
User :   i mean havin sex
Doctor :   there are some people who face such prolems
Doctor :   its a behaviour disorder
Doctor :   its like a medical illness
Doctor :   it can be cured
User :   yes
User :   mental illness
Doctor :   yes
Doctor :   which can be cured
User :   how
Doctor :   i suggest that you take professional help there are therapies
Doctor :   which aim at behaviour modification
User :   cant i get help right now
Doctor :   with professional help you can overcome this problem
Doctor :   no
Doctor :   i am afraid
User :   why
Doctor :   we dont provide psychiatric or other
Doctor :   specialist services right now
Doctor :   we are general practitioners
Doctor :   a psychiatrist can help you better
Doctor :   than us
Doctor :   also its better
Doctor :   to meet a counsellor in person
Doctor :   that chatting with them online
Doctor :   you will be better benefited that way
User :   am having a interview in next week
Doctor :   ok
User :   but am afraid
User :   wht to do
Doctor :   there is nothing to be afraid
Doctor :   think of your condition like a regular fever
Doctor :   which will go away with medicines
User :   i get fear and my heart starts beating up fast as it does normallyy
Doctor :   just take the first step to consult a counsellor
Doctor :   that way half the battle is won
Doctor :   there are many people with behaviour problems like you
User :   wher can i get one ?
Doctor :   You can use the search a doctor/hospital feature on our homepage to find a doctor in your area.
User :   how much they charge ?
Doctor :   it depends upon the hospital
Doctor :   and the number of sittings
Doctor :   that you may require
User :   genrally how much
Doctor :   more than 200Rs
Doctor :   per sitting
User :   can i get one on the home page right now ?
Doctor :   is my rough guess
Doctor :   you can search for the location and then visit tem
User :   i need online
User :   right now
Doctor :   that may not be possible
User :   am in a hurry thiking to end up my life
Doctor :   no
Doctor :   that
Doctor :   is wrong
User :   wht ever it may be i feel tht i hav done something wrong
Doctor :   suicide is a greater
Doctor :   sin than all the things you have mentioned
User :   but doing masturbation watching naked mother all this things bother me doctor
Doctor :   that is a behaviour abnormality
User :   am nt able to show or talk this things openly to anybody thts why am looking for a online help
Doctor :   yes but rather than online
Doctor :   its better to consult a counsellor
Doctor :   they have probably seen thousands like you
Doctor :   with much more severe problems
User :   ok
Doctor :   i suggest that you consult a counsellor
User :   i have some more questios to ask regarding sex pls dont mind
Doctor :   ok
User :   why do my pennis color changed to black
Doctor :   when?
User :   i area around the pennis and the balls near things chaned to black
Doctor :   ok
Doctor :   that is normal
User :   may be it has been 5 yrs
Doctor :   is there any itching or sewlling
Doctor :   swelling
User :   how to over come tis problem
Doctor :   use a moisturizer
Doctor :   the most common cause is dryness
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User :   sometimes itching it itches so much that i keep rubing an
User :   yes
Doctor :   thats because of dryness
User :   am not done yet
Doctor :   ok
Doctor :   thats why use a moisturizer
User :   so it changes to black ?
Doctor :   yes due to dryness
Doctor :   YYYY@YYYY Mobile : 0000
Please confirm your details
User :   any home tips
User :   yes details are right
Doctor :   i suggest you use GNC ALOE VERA MOISTURISING CREAM
Doctor :   twice application
Doctor :   per day
User :   wil ther be any color improvement
Doctor :   its a natural product
Doctor :   use for 15 days to a month
Doctor :   the color decreases if the dryness decreases
User :   can u tell any hometips
Doctor :   apply cocnut oil.
User :   ok
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User :   am not done yet
Doctor :   ok
User :   can u hold for a while i just hav my breakfast and comeback
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