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Psychiatric counseling for child's erratic behavior - Online Doctor Chats

Date : 13-Jan-2012
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Doctor :   hi
Doctor :   how can i help u
User :   I told the problem few days before
User :   About my son
Doctor :   could u specify the problem
Doctor :   i guess u spoke to different doctor then
User :   what' syour name please?
Doctor :   Dr. xxxxx
User :   ok My son is class 12
Doctor :   ok
Doctor :   i guess u chatted with Dr. xxxxx
User :   He always see movies/ listen music
Doctor :   before
Doctor :   ok
Doctor :   go ahead with query
User :   NotRead
Doctor :   ok
Doctor :   lack of interest in studies
Doctor :   ok
User :   Sometimes I saw him watching some bad things in movie
Doctor :   ok
Doctor :   any personal problems
Doctor :   he has
User :   Don't no
Doctor :   ok
User :   But now a days that adiction increased
Doctor :   since how long he is been doing that
Doctor :   ok
User :   every night at TV room
Doctor :   ok
Doctor :   teenage people usually are curious to know
Doctor :   but in ur sons case
Doctor :   he is getting distracted
Doctor :   becoz of this
Doctor :   he need s couselling
Doctor :   try to talk to him
Doctor :   since ur his mother
Doctor :   he will listen to u better than anyone else
Doctor :   r u there
User :   yes
Doctor :   try not force to study
Doctor :   at this age
Doctor :   responsibility should come from within
Doctor :   some kids need guidance
Doctor :   some take themselves
Doctor :   try telling in softer way
Doctor :   to concentrate on studies
Doctor :   if he doesnt listen to u
Doctor :   u can take him to counsellor
User :   I told
Doctor :   she or he might help him
Doctor :   over come this problem
Doctor :   then
Doctor :   dont worry
Doctor :   everything will fine
Doctor :   just a phase of life
Doctor :   every kid goes through
User :   always watch those porn things
Doctor :   u should be concerned
Doctor :   but handle the situation
Doctor :   carefully
User :   How can I guide him?
Doctor :   i would suggest a counselling session
Doctor :   as he doesnt listen to u
Doctor :   r u bangalore
Doctor :   r u in bangalore
User :   no
Doctor :   ok
Doctor :   try to cut down the amount of time he spends on tv
User :   He also did a bad thing
Doctor :   u can assign him some productive work
Doctor :   make him divert attention from those things
Doctor :   by asking him read novels
Doctor :   or take him out for dinner or movies
Doctor :   along with u
Doctor :   try not to leave him alone
Doctor :   actually problem might be he feels lonely
Doctor :   r u able to follow
Doctor :   becoz as a parent u will knowning
Doctor :   that ur son might be thinking better than me
Doctor :   as doctor can think
Doctor :   r u there
Doctor :   r u there
Doctor :   r u there
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Doctor :   hi
Doctor :   we are bangalore based
User :   sorry
Doctor :   and operational in bangalore
User :   there was a call
Doctor :   ok
Doctor :   thats fine
User :   But the great problem is
Doctor :   i would suggest he needs counselling
User :   I think He has some psycological problem also
Doctor :   yep
Doctor :   thats what i meant
Doctor :   he must be feeling lonely
Doctor :   due to some problem
Doctor :   u have to know that
Doctor :   children usually do this
Doctor :   when they have problem which they cant express
Doctor :   or out of curiosity to know
Doctor :   as a parent i understand ur concern
Doctor :   we have to deal with care
Doctor :   not to hurt them
User :   I also caought him sometimes watching me
Doctor :   dont worry
User :   Is it natural?
Doctor :   needs to be counselled
Doctor :   not natural
Doctor :   to get attracted to parents
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Doctor :   we are coming to xxxxxshortly
User :   when?
Doctor :   as of now we dont have database for xxxxx
Doctor :   time frame iam not sure
Doctor :   but shortly we will come to delhi as well
User :   He also stored a lot of nonsense things in computer
Doctor :   ok
Doctor :   u can delete those
Doctor :   try to prevent access to internet
User :   Even my photo also
Doctor :   if u cant avoid
Doctor :   Please fill this form I send, and say done when done.
User :   ok
User :   Plz help me with proper suggestion
Doctor :   counselling
Doctor :   he needs counselling
User :   Lat sunday I got shock when I saw one video he took of mine
Doctor :   ok
User :   But How can I say thing nonsense things to a doctor?
Doctor :   u can say
User :   These studity?
Doctor :   that doctors are there to help
Doctor :   i have patients like these before
Doctor :   they were helped to over their problem
Doctor :   u have to put ur problems
Doctor :   in front of them
Doctor :   only then u can get ur problem solved
User :   So, my is not that new/ strange one?
Doctor :   he is the only one with this problem
Doctor :   i have seen similar cases in my
Doctor :   clinical practise
User :   any psycriatrist?
Doctor :   yep
User :   for him?
User :   plz recommend as u think
Doctor :   he will counsell him
User :   who?
Doctor :   counsellor
User :   So, I should take him to concellor first?
Doctor :   counsellor and psychiatric
Doctor :   should be fine
User :   ok
User :   thanks
Doctor :   ur welcome
Doctor :   dont be scared
Doctor :   many people do have such
Doctor :   problem they have overcome
Doctor :   this
User :   I am really worried how to stop that idicity/ how to talk about those with him
Doctor :   i understand ur concern
Doctor :   he will be fine
User :   Really?
Doctor :   stay calm
Doctor :   yep i confident he should be
Doctor :   fine with counselling
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Doctor :   if ur in banglaore we could have arrange for counsellor
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User :   what is the fees?
Doctor :   it depends on doctor
Doctor :   500 for each session
User :   ok
Doctor :   this session can taken over phone
Doctor :   since you are xxxxi based
User :   ok thanks good afternoon Dr.xxxx
Doctor :   confirm your details
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Doctor :   do you need the service?
Doctor :   we can get it arranged for you
User :   I will think
Doctor :   ok,thankx
Doctor :   bye for now
User :   and inform u later
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