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Date : 21-Feb-2012
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Very Good Posted in: Erectile Dysfunction
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User :   hi doctor
User :   goodmorning
User :   how are you?
Doctor :   I am fine and you?
Doctor :   How may I help you today?
User :   I have to ask a personal query. I feel shy to go to my doctor.
Doctor :   Please go ahead.
User :   I am 27 yr old guy married since 3 months
Doctor :   OK
User :   i had relations before with same girl and we used to get physical, I never had any problems at that time with getting hard penis. but now it is not coming hard
Doctor :   OK
Doctor :   I can definitely help you with the problem, but I need some detailed information.
User :   now my wife is complaining tht i finish too fast
User :   is there any problem with me? will I be able to have sex properly?
User :   can you give me some me some medicine to help?
Doctor :   Surely.
Doctor :   Let me make sure some details
User :   ok please ask
Doctor :   Do you have strong desire before going to sex?
User :   yes i do have, but now I am scared to approach my wife that i wil fail again
User :   so I am trying not to have sex from past 1 week
Doctor :   Is you penis not getting tougher, I mean are you getting prpper erections or not?
Doctor :   *proper
User :   yes it is getting hard and long, but it comes down within few minutes
User :   as soon as I enter her, after few minutes it goes away
Doctor :   Ok.
User :   some times i do not even cum and its goes down
User :   does this mean I have serious problem?
Doctor :   One more question, Are you finishing the sex fast, that are you getting early ejaculation?
User :   i never faced this problem is the last 3 years. I was with the same girl, we used to have sex once in 2-3 months with condoms.
Doctor :   We will find a solution. This is not a serious problem. Many people has similr problem. We can solve the proper .
Doctor :   Please answer , Are you getting early ejaculation?
User :   sometimes i get
Doctor :   OK
Doctor :   From your query I think this is might be Erectile dysfunction
Doctor :   There are some tips How to get proper erections.
User :   will these help?
Doctor :   surely.
Doctor :   You did before and now you are afraid
Doctor :   Be prepared for sex?
Doctor :   Be calm.
User :   yes cos now i am not getting proper hard, and even if it gets hard, it is not staying
User :   so I am afraid to approach her
Doctor :   Do not bring any kind of stress while going to sex.
Doctor :   Just completely relax.
User :   ok
Doctor :   Think romatically.
Doctor :   Spend some time with your wife before going to msex.
Doctor :   Talk about romance.
User :   i did not get this. Can you please explain this doctor?
Doctor :   I think you know about fore play
User :   yes we do foreplay for sometime, but if i think, it is less than before
Doctor :   Intimately move with your wife. Arouse your mind.
Doctor :   Take as much time as possible to get the arousal.
Doctor :   Do as nmuch fore play as possible.
Doctor :   I think I do not need to explain the fore play.
User :   is there any medication to stop this problem???
Doctor :   Let us duscuss soem tips before going to medicine
User :   ok
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