Premature ejaculation and its prevention through start and stop technique - Online Doctor Chats
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User : hi ...Am newly married...While having intercourse, I am facing the problem of premature ejaculation as I am not able to last long the intercourse...mean to say I am discharging after 4-5 minutes on intercourse...How to get rid of this problem doctor?
User : hello doctor ..
Doctor : Hi
Doctor : I am Dr.
User : Hi sir
Doctor : I am reading ur query
User : ok
Doctor : How old are you?
User : 27 years
User : quite a few times, i have been able to do long lasting intercourse
Doctor : Since when are you noticed this PE?
User : but most of the times, the ejaculation comes after 4-5 minutes..or
User : I married just last month only
User : say 1 month
User : I had a bad habit of Masturbation,before my marriage..
Doctor : Do you used to have good erections and did not had premature ejaculation while masturbating?
User : i am not sure about it.. since i have been masturbation for long..so it depends upon the frequency
User : say if i masturbate daily...the erections were less
Doctor : When u were masturbating do u used ejaculate early?
User : in case ..after 3-4 days ...they were better
User : yeah...
User : say 2 minutes
Doctor : Ok
Doctor : What kind of work do u do? how many hrs do u work?
User : I am a sales manager
User : work for 6 hours
User : 6-8 hours ,,
Doctor : Are u stressed out?
User : no
User : not at all
User : its modest type of work..no any physical labour is involved
User : its all about meeting people..so i dont feel i am stressed out ..or physically tired
Doctor : I am asking abt mental stress
User : yeah it is there to some extent
Doctor : Ok
User : but I dont feel that it can be a reason...cause i am most of the times achieving my targets
Doctor : Let make sure 2 thing
Doctor : Do you have strong desire to have intercourse?
User : sales targets ..
User : yeah it is there..
Doctor : Do you get enough stiffness of penis for vaginal penetration
User : yeah
User : stiffness is there..
Doctor : So It is Premature Ejaculation (Pe)
Doctor : I will give u few tips
User : wat kind of stiffness are u talkng about sir
Doctor : Penile stiffness
Doctor : hardness
User : cause ..when arousal is there..the penis universally becomes hard...so its there
User : yeah
User : sometimes its soft as well
Doctor : Not all arousal has erections
User : my only problem is that i cant last it longer time
Doctor : they are different problems
Doctor : But u have PE problem
User : till date ..i am getting erections..
User : ah okk
User : suggest me the way out then doctor...
Doctor : Try the stop and Squeez technique
User : wats that
Doctor : Masturbate> when u get full erection > and when u r about to ejaculate stop masturbating> then squeeze the head of the penis with fingers and stop the ejaculation
Doctor : And repeat this technique multiple times
User : / u mean i should masturbate.. again..
Doctor : This way you will get will power, voluntary control and ur body to delay ejaculation
Doctor : This takes one-3mon ths for full practice
Doctor : This is a training
Doctor : Sexual activity is a training
Doctor : Do u follow this?
User : how to squeeze ...i did not understand..
Doctor : squeeze with thumb and index fingers
Doctor : Squeeze the penis to stop ejaculation
User : if suppose i start masturbating than how will I be able to iintercourse with my better half..cause it is obvious that the quantity of semen/liquid shall decrease if i do masturbation as well..
User : What are the results of doing such a Stop and squeeze exercise..and
Doctor : This is the scientific technique
User : do condoms with Extra-Time ..delay discharge do help ....?
Doctor : If u can do that is fine with mstutrabation
Doctor : If u can not masturbate u can try in real intercourse
User : k
Doctor : While doing real intercourse
User : what are the other things I should keep in my mind to overcome the PE
Doctor : When u r abt to ejaculatory take out the penis from vagina
Doctor : and squeeze the penis
User : k
User : oh k
Doctor : u may loose the erections
User : then can i put it again inside the vagina or no ....
Doctor : but u need to talk to partner for cooperation
Doctor : Yes
Doctor : stop and start'
User : k
Doctor : 2 Use DELAY cream which helps to to sensations of penis so that u can delay ejaculation
Doctor : it is available in the medical shop
User : what is the Brand name
User : i mean any specific brand name....
User : and how to use it
Doctor : DELAY
Doctor : "DELAY"
User : k
Doctor : 3. Use Tab CONFIDO also
Doctor : take one hr before intercourse
User : wat about the Extra time condoms
Doctor : You ca use them
User : CONFIDO...Wat are the active ingredients of this tablet.. is it a steroid?
Doctor : They will also decrease the penile sensations
Doctor : Confido is a herball from H
Doctor : it helps in iintercourse
User : k
Doctor : 4. Do u have performace anxiety
User : are u sure it is herbal ..cause many medicines are there in name of herbals
User : what is that
User : i have heard this world..PA
Doctor : I mean fear of not satisfying in intercourse?
User : how do u define it
User : yeah
User : it is there
User : i feel that my partner is not satisfied.. though she is cooperative
User : /
User : ?
Doctor : ok
Doctor : But do u feel anxious
User : anxious means?
Doctor : yes
User : i try to hold the ejaculation..but i am failing in that
Doctor : My friend this is practice . Dont get discouraged
Doctor : It is exercise
Doctor : Try Try
User : ty
User : how to take confido
User : i mean dosage
Doctor : orally
Doctor : one tab one hr before intercourse
User : i mean 1 or 2 tabs.
User : k
User : it has to be taken after dinner
User : is it so?
User : or one can take it anytime
Doctor : no
Doctor : one hr before intercourse
User : after eating food or one can take it before food as well
User : so in nut shell...one is the stop and squeeze, other is Delay cream..and Extra time condoms and last is Confido...Is this all...or there is anything specific left...?
User : Are u there doctor..
Doctor : Y
Doctor : I am chatting with another pt
Doctor : plz be patient
User : k
Doctor : Those areenough
User : i have only 2 mins left..
Doctor : Few more tips: User : wat about the diet ..
User : and where can i consult in to get better treatment..if this does not help me..
Doctor : Balanced diet
User : k
Doctor : friuts and vegetables, mi;f proteins
User : Few more tips like.....?
Doctor : When u r tired do not go for intercourse
User : ahh okl
Doctor : Do more fore play
User : k sir
User : thanks for ur time...
Doctor : You welcome
Doctor : Get 8 hrs sleep
User : hello doctor ..
Doctor : Hi
Doctor : I am Dr.
User : Hi sir
Doctor : I am reading ur query
User : ok
Doctor : How old are you?
User : 27 years
User : quite a few times, i have been able to do long lasting intercourse
Doctor : Since when are you noticed this PE?
User : but most of the times, the ejaculation comes after 4-5 minutes..or
User : I married just last month only
User : say 1 month
User : I had a bad habit of Masturbation,before my marriage..
Doctor : Do you used to have good erections and did not had premature ejaculation while masturbating?
User : i am not sure about it.. since i have been masturbation for long..so it depends upon the frequency
User : say if i masturbate daily...the erections were less
Doctor : When u were masturbating do u used ejaculate early?
User : in case ..after 3-4 days ...they were better
User : yeah...
User : say 2 minutes
Doctor : Ok
Doctor : What kind of work do u do? how many hrs do u work?
User : I am a sales manager
User : work for 6 hours
User : 6-8 hours ,,
Doctor : Are u stressed out?
User : no
User : not at all
User : its modest type of work..no any physical labour is involved
User : its all about meeting people..so i dont feel i am stressed out ..or physically tired
Doctor : I am asking abt mental stress
User : yeah it is there to some extent
Doctor : Ok
User : but I dont feel that it can be a reason...cause i am most of the times achieving my targets
Doctor : Let make sure 2 thing
Doctor : Do you have strong desire to have intercourse?
User : sales targets ..
User : yeah it is there..
Doctor : Do you get enough stiffness of penis for vaginal penetration
User : yeah
User : stiffness is there..
Doctor : So It is Premature Ejaculation (Pe)
Doctor : I will give u few tips
User : wat kind of stiffness are u talkng about sir
Doctor : Penile stiffness
Doctor : hardness
User : cause ..when arousal is there..the penis universally becomes hard...so its there
User : yeah
User : sometimes its soft as well
Doctor : Not all arousal has erections
User : my only problem is that i cant last it longer time
Doctor : they are different problems
Doctor : But u have PE problem
User : till date ..i am getting erections..
User : ah okk
User : suggest me the way out then doctor...
Doctor : Try the stop and Squeez technique
User : wats that
Doctor : Masturbate> when u get full erection > and when u r about to ejaculate stop masturbating> then squeeze the head of the penis with fingers and stop the ejaculation
Doctor : And repeat this technique multiple times
User : / u mean i should masturbate.. again..
Doctor : This way you will get will power, voluntary control and ur body to delay ejaculation
Doctor : This takes one-3mon ths for full practice
Doctor : This is a training
Doctor : Sexual activity is a training
Doctor : Do u follow this?
User : how to squeeze ...i did not understand..
Doctor : squeeze with thumb and index fingers
Doctor : Squeeze the penis to stop ejaculation
User : if suppose i start masturbating than how will I be able to iintercourse with my better half..cause it is obvious that the quantity of semen/liquid shall decrease if i do masturbation as well..
User : What are the results of doing such a Stop and squeeze exercise..and
Doctor : This is the scientific technique
User : do condoms with Extra-Time ..delay discharge do help ....?
Doctor : If u can do that is fine with mstutrabation
Doctor : If u can not masturbate u can try in real intercourse
User : k
Doctor : While doing real intercourse
User : what are the other things I should keep in my mind to overcome the PE
Doctor : When u r abt to ejaculatory take out the penis from vagina
Doctor : and squeeze the penis
User : k
User : oh k
Doctor : u may loose the erections
User : then can i put it again inside the vagina or no ....
Doctor : but u need to talk to partner for cooperation
Doctor : Yes
Doctor : stop and start'
User : k
Doctor : 2 Use DELAY cream which helps to to sensations of penis so that u can delay ejaculation
Doctor : it is available in the medical shop
User : what is the Brand name
User : i mean any specific brand name....
User : and how to use it
Doctor : DELAY
Doctor : "DELAY"
User : k
Doctor : 3. Use Tab CONFIDO also
Doctor : take one hr before intercourse
User : wat about the Extra time condoms
Doctor : You ca use them
User : CONFIDO...Wat are the active ingredients of this tablet.. is it a steroid?
Doctor : They will also decrease the penile sensations
Doctor : Confido is a herball from H
Doctor : it helps in iintercourse
User : k
Doctor : 4. Do u have performace anxiety
User : are u sure it is herbal ..cause many medicines are there in name of herbals
User : what is that
User : i have heard this world..PA
Doctor : I mean fear of not satisfying in intercourse?
User : how do u define it
User : yeah
User : it is there
User : i feel that my partner is not satisfied.. though she is cooperative
User : /
User : ?
Doctor : ok
Doctor : But do u feel anxious
User : anxious means?
Doctor : yes
User : i try to hold the ejaculation..but i am failing in that
Doctor : My friend this is practice . Dont get discouraged
Doctor : It is exercise
Doctor : Try Try
User : ty
User : how to take confido
User : i mean dosage
Doctor : orally
Doctor : one tab one hr before intercourse
User : i mean 1 or 2 tabs.
User : k
User : it has to be taken after dinner
User : is it so?
User : or one can take it anytime
Doctor : no
Doctor : one hr before intercourse
User : after eating food or one can take it before food as well
User : so in nut shell...one is the stop and squeeze, other is Delay cream..and Extra time condoms and last is Confido...Is this all...or there is anything specific left...?
User : Are u there doctor..
Doctor : Y
Doctor : I am chatting with another pt
Doctor : plz be patient
User : k
Doctor : Those areenough
User : i have only 2 mins left..
Doctor : Few more tips: User : wat about the diet ..
User : and where can i consult in to get better treatment..if this does not help me..
Doctor : Balanced diet
User : k
Doctor : friuts and vegetables, mi;f proteins
User : Few more tips like.....?
Doctor : When u r tired do not go for intercourse
User : ahh okl
Doctor : Do more fore play
User : k sir
User : thanks for ur time...
Doctor : You welcome
Doctor : Get 8 hrs sleep
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