Pain in vagina during intercourse, inability to consume marriage - Online Doctor Chats
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Doctor : hi
User : hello
Doctor : how can i help you
Doctor : please go ahead with ur medical query
Doctor : r u there
User : i woudl like to know your speciality.......since i woudl be interested in talking to sexology specialist or gynaeocologist,
Doctor : ok
Doctor : I am a General Practitioner, I believe I can help you within my expertise and If required I shall recommend a specialist.
User : sure
Doctor : go ahead with medical query
Doctor : For Administrative and health purposes, Please provide these details of the patient-Age: Gender: Occupation: Location: Marital Status: Weight and Height: Dependents: Yes/ No.
User : i am newly married and having problem with consummation of marraige
Doctor : ok
Doctor : please go ahead with ur medical query
User : J 35yrs........ocuupation engr.........location chennai.......married.......
Doctor : ok
Doctor : r u there
User : it is not possible to consummate the marraige due to intense vaginal pain
User : initallly ...........i thought it is due to vaginusmus........which was partially the reson.......we went for counselling........and although partner is quite relaxed........now.......still.........pain arises
Doctor : u need to relax
Doctor : and be calm
Doctor : ok
Doctor : u need to have good foreplay before u have intercourse
Doctor : she might be shy or apprehensive
Doctor : u need to make her feel comfortable not to rush into things
Doctor : take things slowly at a time
Doctor : rather than rushing
Doctor : what did the therapist suggest when u went for counselling
User : that is normal........it so seeems.......perforated vagina........which has....ruptured but is still hanging.....and gets stretched.........
Doctor : hymen isit
User : YES
Doctor : if she is getting severe pain
User : we went ot a gyneacologiest.......who examined and said.......hymen is normal........
Doctor : ok
Doctor : u can use vaginal lubricants
User : yes..........by putting figner......i think the hymen is stretching.........but not breaking.
Doctor : then u need to consult a gynecologist
Doctor : she might need surgery
Doctor : small surgery
Doctor : if the hymen is very thick
Doctor : it can done in the opd
User : yes..........i feel so..............is my.......intuition correct
Doctor : u need to consult a gynecologist
Doctor : anything else u want to know about
User : i am not a medical person.......
User : the gyneacologist we went said everythign is normal..........
Doctor : ok
Doctor : did she under the surgery
Doctor : minor procedure
User : whom do we approach for second opinion..sexologist or gyneacologist
User : ??
Doctor : gynecologist
User : it would take how much time.........this surgery.
Doctor : if she says there is no medical problems
Doctor : then u got to seek a counsellor help
Doctor : YYYY@YYYY
Mobile : 0000
Doctor : confirm ur details
User : wel.the furst gyneacologst was a lady doctor......whoc examined.......and said no medical problem.....hymen is normal
User : but then it shoudl not be stretching .......???
User : right??
Doctor : yes it can
Doctor : it will strecth
User : i am able to manuvaroe 3 fingers.........by stretching........the hymen.....
User : it is ruptured
Doctor : slowly it will expand
Doctor : u need to patient
Doctor : yes it will ruputure
User : but not vanicshed.......still.......the vagine is completely covered
Doctor : will pain for sometime
User : it is 7 months .......
User : it shoudl have been ruptrured by now.........by fingers and penis...???
Doctor : yes surely
User : but it has not........although.........the penis has never been able to enter.....
User : due to the hymen..........
User : only finger........with lot of twisting and turning
Doctor : r u sure u were not able to penetrate
User : YES
Doctor : u can consult a gynecologist , take a second opinion
Doctor : only after clinical examination
Doctor : one can confirm it
User : that is what i think.......also.........
Doctor : if she has adjustment problems
User : how does one know a hymen is too thick.........and is strectching INSTEAD of BREAKING........
Doctor : then it will take time
Doctor : u can see the bleeding first time
User : hymen.............broke........since i saw the hymen........intact.........first
Doctor : ok
Doctor : then it has broken
User : then after some days..........of trying..........it broke in middel...........but remiained.........attached to side walls
Doctor : it is more of psychological
Doctor : then
User : .........attached to side walls
User : there is a U shaped hole.
Doctor : ok
Doctor : i need to clinically examine to confirm
User : which never seems ot increase....even after lots of lubs........fingers
Doctor : i would suggest u to consult a gynecologist
Doctor : ok
User : sure.thank you
User : any particular gynaecologist you can recommend?
Doctor : where are u located
User : chennai
Doctor : we are based in bangalore
Doctor : and operational in bangalore
Doctor : as of now
User : ok
User : any doctorin bangalore........sicne we vist
Doctor : i didnt get u
Doctor : You can use the search a doctor/hospital feature on our homepage to find a gynecologist If you wish, we can fix up your appointment with a doctor in your area.
Doctor : The number is 91-80-0000 (Mon - Fri, 12PM to 6PM)
User : i am from bangalore.........so we visit for 3-4 days.....so any good gynaecologist...bangalore would be also ok
Doctor : this helpline number
Doctor : when u come down to bangalore
Doctor : u can give us a call
Doctor : we will help u fix appointment
Doctor : but keep us informed before
Doctor : prior to seeking appointment
User : hospital name?
Doctor : u can write to us
Doctor : YYYY@YYYY
User : the surgery is major.......for removeing hymen
User : ??
Doctor : we provide online consultation
Doctor : minor procedure
Doctor : as of now
User : how much time does it take for .......
Doctor : 2 mins
User : removal
Doctor : yes
User : any post oprative care required??
Doctor : 5 mins at the max
User : can be done by any gyneacologist??
Doctor : that the gynecologist will explain
Doctor : yes
Doctor : it is done by them
Doctor : YYYY@YYYY
Mobile : 0000
Doctor : confirm ur details please
User : then...........IT IS NOT BEST TO REMOVE THE HYMEN..........IMMEDIATELY.....WHAT HARM CAN IT CAUSE anyway it would have to GO
User : ???
Doctor : infection can set in
User : details are ok.........mobile is opeational only when i vist banglore....
Doctor : ok
Doctor : type in small letters
User : but then it has to be done .........if deemed necessary???
Doctor : there is no harm
Doctor : in that
Doctor : if hymen is thick
Doctor : many women get it removed
Doctor : it will not affect ur sexual life any way
Doctor : ok
Doctor : Is there any thing else that I could help you with?
User : so suppose...............i decide ......... to get it removed.........i can stright away go to a gyneacologist and ask her to????
Doctor : u can also remove
Doctor : it is usually thin membrane
Doctor : if ur not able to break it
User : how?
Doctor : u can consult gynecologist
Doctor : hi
Doctor : how can i help you?
Doctor : hi
User : hello
Doctor : how can i help you
Doctor : please go ahead with ur medical query
Doctor : r u there
User : i woudl like to know your speciality.......since i woudl be interested in talking to sexology specialist or gynaeocologist,
Doctor : ok
Doctor : I am a General Practitioner, I believe I can help you within my expertise and If required I shall recommend a specialist.
User : sure
Doctor : go ahead with medical query
Doctor : For Administrative and health purposes, Please provide these details of the patient-Age: Gender: Occupation: Location: Marital Status: Weight and Height: Dependents: Yes/ No.
User : i am newly married and having problem with consummation of marraige
Doctor : ok
Doctor : please go ahead with ur medical query
User : J 35yrs........ocuupation engr.........location chennai.......married.......
Doctor : ok
Doctor : r u there
User : it is not possible to consummate the marraige due to intense vaginal pain
User : initallly ...........i thought it is due to vaginusmus........which was partially the reson.......we went for counselling........and although partner is quite relaxed........now.......still.........pain arises
Doctor : u need to relax
Doctor : and be calm
Doctor : ok
Doctor : u need to have good foreplay before u have intercourse
Doctor : she might be shy or apprehensive
Doctor : u need to make her feel comfortable not to rush into things
Doctor : take things slowly at a time
Doctor : rather than rushing
Doctor : what did the therapist suggest when u went for counselling
User : that is normal........it so seeems.......perforated vagina........which has....ruptured but is still hanging.....and gets stretched.........
Doctor : hymen isit
User : YES
Doctor : if she is getting severe pain
User : we went ot a gyneacologiest.......who examined and said.......hymen is normal........
Doctor : ok
Doctor : u can use vaginal lubricants
User : yes..........by putting figner......i think the hymen is stretching.........but not breaking.
Doctor : then u need to consult a gynecologist
Doctor : she might need surgery
Doctor : small surgery
Doctor : if the hymen is very thick
Doctor : it can done in the opd
User : yes..........i feel so..............is my.......intuition correct
Doctor : u need to consult a gynecologist
Doctor : anything else u want to know about
User : i am not a medical person.......
User : the gyneacologist we went said everythign is normal..........
Doctor : ok
Doctor : did she under the surgery
Doctor : minor procedure
User : whom do we approach for second opinion..sexologist or gyneacologist
User : ??
Doctor : gynecologist
User : it would take how much time.........this surgery.
Doctor : if she says there is no medical problems
Doctor : then u got to seek a counsellor help
Doctor : YYYY@YYYY
Mobile : 0000
Doctor : confirm ur details
User : wel.the furst gyneacologst was a lady doctor......whoc examined.......and said no medical problem.....hymen is normal
User : but then it shoudl not be stretching .......???
User : right??
Doctor : yes it can
Doctor : it will strecth
User : i am able to manuvaroe 3 fingers.........by stretching........the hymen.....
User : it is ruptured
Doctor : slowly it will expand
Doctor : u need to patient
Doctor : yes it will ruputure
User : but not vanicshed.......still.......the vagine is completely covered
Doctor : will pain for sometime
User : it is 7 months .......
User : it shoudl have been ruptrured by now.........by fingers and penis...???
Doctor : yes surely
User : but it has not........although.........the penis has never been able to enter.....
User : due to the hymen..........
User : only finger........with lot of twisting and turning
Doctor : r u sure u were not able to penetrate
User : YES
Doctor : u can consult a gynecologist , take a second opinion
Doctor : only after clinical examination
Doctor : one can confirm it
User : that is what i think.......also.........
Doctor : if she has adjustment problems
User : how does one know a hymen is too thick.........and is strectching INSTEAD of BREAKING........
Doctor : then it will take time
Doctor : u can see the bleeding first time
User : hymen.............broke........since i saw the hymen........intact.........first
Doctor : ok
Doctor : then it has broken
User : then after some days..........of trying..........it broke in middel...........but remiained.........attached to side walls
Doctor : it is more of psychological
Doctor : then
User : .........attached to side walls
User : there is a U shaped hole.
Doctor : ok
Doctor : i need to clinically examine to confirm
User : which never seems ot increase....even after lots of lubs........fingers
Doctor : i would suggest u to consult a gynecologist
Doctor : ok
User : sure.thank you
User : any particular gynaecologist you can recommend?
Doctor : where are u located
User : chennai
Doctor : we are based in bangalore
Doctor : and operational in bangalore
Doctor : as of now
User : ok
User : any doctorin bangalore........sicne we vist
Doctor : i didnt get u
Doctor : You can use the search a doctor/hospital feature on our homepage to find a gynecologist If you wish, we can fix up your appointment with a doctor in your area.
Doctor : The number is 91-80-0000 (Mon - Fri, 12PM to 6PM)
User : i am from bangalore.........so we visit for 3-4 days.....so any good gynaecologist...bangalore would be also ok
Doctor : this helpline number
Doctor : when u come down to bangalore
Doctor : u can give us a call
Doctor : we will help u fix appointment
Doctor : but keep us informed before
Doctor : prior to seeking appointment
User : hospital name?
Doctor : u can write to us
Doctor : YYYY@YYYY
User : the surgery is major.......for removeing hymen
User : ??
Doctor : we provide online consultation
Doctor : minor procedure
Doctor : as of now
User : how much time does it take for .......
Doctor : 2 mins
User : removal
Doctor : yes
User : any post oprative care required??
Doctor : 5 mins at the max
User : can be done by any gyneacologist??
Doctor : that the gynecologist will explain
Doctor : yes
Doctor : it is done by them
Doctor : YYYY@YYYY
Mobile : 0000
Doctor : confirm ur details please
User : then...........IT IS NOT BEST TO REMOVE THE HYMEN..........IMMEDIATELY.....WHAT HARM CAN IT CAUSE anyway it would have to GO
User : ???
Doctor : infection can set in
User : details are ok.........mobile is opeational only when i vist banglore....
Doctor : ok
Doctor : type in small letters
User : but then it has to be done .........if deemed necessary???
Doctor : there is no harm
Doctor : in that
Doctor : if hymen is thick
Doctor : many women get it removed
Doctor : it will not affect ur sexual life any way
Doctor : ok
Doctor : Is there any thing else that I could help you with?
User : so suppose...............i decide ......... to get it removed.........i can stright away go to a gyneacologist and ask her to????
Doctor : u can also remove
Doctor : it is usually thin membrane
Doctor : if ur not able to break it
User : how?
Doctor : u can consult gynecologist
Doctor : hi
Doctor : how can i help you?
Doctor : hi
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