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Measures to overcome possessive behavior - Online Doctor Chats

Date : 13-Jan-2012
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Doctor :   hi
User :   Hello.
Doctor :   how can i help you?
User :   Is that Dr XXXXXXXX ?
Doctor :   No
Doctor :   This is Dr. xxxxx
User :   No issues :)
User :   anyways
User :   Hi xxxxx
Doctor :   hi
User :   I wanted to discuss some problems which I am facing, which are related more to my emotional behaviour
Doctor :   ok
Doctor :   For Administrative and health purposes, Please provide these details -Age: Gender: Occupation: Location: Marital Status: Weight and Height: Dependents: Yes/ No.
User :   Age: 24 // Male // xxxxxrunning an xxxxx// xxxxx // Single // 58kg - 5'7" No dependents
User :   I am very posessive
User :   In nature, I tend to look for pity always
Doctor :   ok
User :   I have been into several relations which i have siffered in because of this
User :   suffered*
Doctor :   ok
Doctor :   are you feeling insecure about yourself?
User :   Yes... at times.
User :   Most of the times
User :   I dont live with my parents
Doctor :   ok
User :   I want you to read something, that might help understanding my psycology
Doctor :   ok
User :   Check... WWW.WWWW.WW Doctor :   give me a sec
User :   sure
Doctor :   why do you feel that you are being punished?
User :   Well, Punished by what people call god.
User :   I am am athiest
User :   you read all the posts?
Doctor :   almost
Doctor :   am still reading
User :   Ok.
Doctor :   in what way do you feel that you are being punished?
User :   Well, I dont have a relation I can call all to my own self.
User :   Whenever I get into a relation, I give in my 100% and never get back the same
Doctor :   ok
User :   My expectations from everyone including myself, are too high
User :   Thats like a punishment
Doctor :   may be you are holding on too tight
User :   and thats when I thought there is nothing called God
Doctor :   just realize that its not possible to give 100% for everyone in a relationship
Doctor :   look at it this way, a relation is just part of out life
User :   Well, but most of them fake the relation
User :   there is always something that everyone wants out of it.
Doctor :   to get more than 50% in itself is a success
User :   Which never happened as well.
User :   Anyways
Doctor :   life's like that, everything is a give and take relationship
User :   going away from personal relations
User :   I am emotionaly very weak
User :   I cry it out...
Doctor :   there is never anything like a selfless relationship
User :   Not in public, but with someone I call my maa.
Doctor :   ok
Doctor :   i read about that
User :   yes
Doctor :   you are probably still feeling this way
User :   Probably.
Doctor :   because of a previous bad relationship
User :   Perhaps...
Doctor :   its natural for people to feel that way after a relationship ends
Doctor :   but we just learn to move on
User :   I dont put on weight as well...
User :   I have lost my appetite
Doctor :   it just means that you need to still wait for that compatible partner
Doctor :   ok
User :   My BP is as high as 160/100 at times
User :   And i am feeling normal
Doctor :   that happens when you are worrying about a relationship
User :   I have had many checkups
Doctor :   where did you check that?
Doctor :   the BP?
User :   They call it Secondary Hypertensions
User :   Well, I have the BP machiene
User :   Both automatic and the otherone where u pump it in
User :   I get it checked from doctors as well.
User :   I got my entire checkup in Fortis
Doctor :   and when was it 160/100?
Doctor :   with the manual one or the electronic?
User :   Thats my regular BP
User :   Manual
Doctor :   do you have any other health problems?
User :   I feel weak and tired
Doctor :   ok
User :   My stamina sucks.... sorry for the word
Doctor :   ok
Doctor :   who diagnosed it as secondary hypertension?
User :   xxxxx and xxxxx
User :   In Chandigarh
Doctor :   because secondary hypertension implies there is an underlying cause
User :   hmm
Doctor :   are your other tests normal?
User :   they had a MRI done as well
User :   yeah
User :   For the stomach
User :   they feared a tumor in there
User :   but it was ok
Doctor :   ok
User :   and, i had Diabaties tests done. Urin culture
Doctor :   the weakness can be corrected with a good diet
User :   and i am forgetting one
Doctor :   ok
User :   I dont have an appetite
Doctor :   any positive tests?
Doctor :   ok
User :   None
Doctor :   you should consider working out
Doctor :   say walking, jogging, treadmill
User :   Well, I tried as well.
Doctor :   anything
User :   I do tredmill
Doctor :   as it improves the appetite, strengthen's ur muscles
User :   but, i have developed this problem in my back.
Doctor :   and improves your mood as well
Doctor :   what is your weight now/
User :   around 56/58
Doctor :   ok
Doctor :   and your height?
User :   can u give me a minute?
User :   I am 5'7"
Doctor :   ok
User :   and yeah my HB is 17
Doctor :   you need to put on atleast 6-7 kgs
Doctor :   for your weight
Doctor :   so you need to take more proteins
Doctor :   in your diet
Doctor :   more soy, tofu, eggs, lean meat
User :   back...
User :   well yeah
Doctor :   also you should take small frequent meals
User :   Should i consider food supliments
Doctor :   instead of large meals
Doctor :   eat more fruits and salads
User :   hmm ok
Doctor :   as it helps
Doctor :   in overall health
User :   I hate fruits and milk
Doctor :   ok
Doctor :   try salads
User :   yeah
User :   fibers ?
Doctor :   also if you work out it will help your emotional problem also
User :   I do work out... but i get tired
Doctor :   any raw vegetable
Doctor :   is good
User :   Well, i eat a lot of raw vegetables.
Doctor :   carrots, lettuce, beet root
Doctor :   ok
Doctor :   thats good
User :   I also am not very strong sexualy.
Doctor :   ok
User :   I mean,
Doctor :   ok
User :   either becuase i dont feel like making out when the other person is faking
Doctor :   go on
User :   i dont get into it
Doctor :   is there problem maintaining an erection
User :   yes
Doctor :   ok
Doctor :   thats probably psychological
User :   and also, if it comes, i cum out very soon
Doctor :   ok
User :   At times i feel, even after having such a great professional life, i am a bag full of problems
Doctor :   the cause is mostly psychological
User :   hmm
Doctor :   i feel that with the right kind of person
User :   even cumming out quickly ?/
Doctor :   you would have a healthy sex life
Doctor :   yes
User :   well yes
Doctor :   it occurs mostly due to stress
User :   hmm...
Doctor :   you can consider using a supplement called xxxxx
User :   anyways... so what all do u suggest...
Doctor :   2 tabs daily
User :   that is for?
Doctor :   its a GNC PHARMA product
Doctor :   its for overall health
Doctor :   its a mineral and vitamin supplement
Doctor :   For Details Visit and Buy the product at www. xxxxx. xxxxx
User :   alright...
Doctor :   also try to have a positive attitude
User :   well, thats is what i dont have
Doctor :   always remember that the more you hold on to a relationship
User :   I do a bit of social work, that helps me and leave me smiling
User :   but when i see people faking relations... i get upset
Doctor :   the more likely its going to slip off
Doctor :   you can continue with it
Doctor :   its very good that you are doing it
Doctor :   yes
Doctor :   that happens
Doctor :   there are all kinds of people
Doctor :   in the world
Doctor :   you are just too young to feel this way
Doctor :   you will meet better people in the future
User :   well with the kind of help u are giving, i am sure, i can help u as well.
Doctor :   i didnt get you
User :   If we remain in touch, I will do my bit for the website
Doctor :   ok
Doctor :   thanks
User :   I am into Internet marketing
User :   and we can do SEO for u guys complementary
Doctor :   you write very well in your blog
User :   i am comming up with my new site soon
Doctor :   ok
User :   WWW.WWWW.WW is the design
Doctor :   we can stay in touch
Doctor :   ok
Doctor :   you can mail us at YYYY@YYYY
Doctor :   or call us at 91-80-0000 (Mon - Fri, 12PM to 6PM)
User :   sure
User :   i designed the website
Doctor :   ok
User :   did u check the image
User :   i am not a designer, i designed for myself but
Doctor :   You can also talk to our tech lead
User :   sure, that will be helpful
Doctor :   Mr. XXXXXXXX xxxxx
User :   i am on yahoo at xxxxx. xxxxx
User :   messenger
User :   will help u guys for sure
Doctor :   his no. is 0000
Doctor :   ok
User :   can i call him now... ??
Doctor :   yes
Doctor :   you can call him anytime
User :   great
User :   :)
User :   talk to him and we wll get in touch
Doctor :   Please fill the feedback form say done when done
User :   iwill keep in ytouch
Doctor :   ok
Doctor :   Is there any thing else that I could help you with?
User :   that should be it
Doctor :   ok
User :   i will take the mediciene u prescriber
User :   and u talk to ur tech help
User :   i am on 0000
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User :   he can call me anytime.
Doctor :   ok
Doctor :   we will communicate with him
User :   i will wait for his call.
User :   i dont want to call him and say hey dude, i am someone u dont know
User :   so... would wait for his call
Doctor :   ok
User :   would wait
Doctor :   ok
Doctor :   bye for now
User :   bye nice talking to you
User :   :)
Doctor :   bye
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