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Date : 13-Jan-2012
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Practicing since : 2004
Answered : 40 Questions
Doctor :   hi
Doctor :   how can i help u?
User :   Hi Im 33 ys male, living in kerala, married for last 1 year
Doctor :   k
User :   My problem is low desire for sex. We have sex at average once a week. Is this an abnormality, we live together ofcourse
Doctor :   k
Doctor :   ur wifes age?
Doctor :   ur profession?
User :   My medical records are ok, except for
User :   wife 26, house wife, i am working in pvt,
Doctor :   k
Doctor :   can explain about ur low sex drive?
User :   i was treated for rheumatic fever at very young age, was under penidure LA 6 an LA12 injections till age of 18. I had jaundice when in school
Doctor :   thats fine
User :   as of today I have SGPT of 55 in liver and 159 LDL in blood. Can this be a reason?
Doctor :   yeah nay old liver disease
Doctor :   can explain about ur low sex drive?
Doctor :   r u there?
User :   Its not that I do not have desire, I am attracted to women and I am also attractive to them. I have fantasies of my own, but no attraction or desire to sex with my wife. But our frequency is once in a week or two weeks
Doctor :   k
Doctor :   Do you smoke or chew tobacco/drink alcohol/Any illicit drugs/ betel nut chewing? If yes how much/how often and how long you have?
User :   where as my info goes my friends at this age have daily
Doctor :   k
User :   i do not smoke, I take alchohol once in 2 months or very rarely that too i restrict to 2 pegs always
Doctor :   Do you have Allergies / Diabetes / Thyroid problem / High Blood pressure/Heart disease/ Asthma etc
User :   not at all, I am in particular a very shy person,, not toomuch of friends or do not roam around. I enjoy reading mags and business and economics
Doctor :   k
Doctor :   well its not a big problems
User :   i do mild jogging also 3times a week
Doctor :   many young married couples face these.
User :   Another point about my wife
Doctor :   was an arranged marriage?
User :   she is not that attractive physically, though she is very good at heart and very loving. she is very lean
User :   yes it was arranged
Doctor :   k
Doctor :   yeah
Doctor :   since u have already judged her to be unattractive
Doctor :   that feeling has gone inti ur mind
User :   may be
Doctor :   what i am going to suggest is_
User :   do i need to undergo any particular blood test for any related probs
Doctor :   start an open disecussion wd ur wife
Doctor :   coolly & comfortably
User :   hm
Doctor :   & let her understand u
Doctor :   let her feel comfortable
Doctor :   realxed
Doctor :   secure
Doctor :   safe
User :   do i need to undergo any particular blood test for any related probs
Doctor :   not reqd at this time
User :   she had a prgnancy which resulted in miscarriage in AUg
Doctor :   u can start concentrating on dietics
User :   any particular food for both of us?
Doctor :   yeah
User :   plz
Doctor :   like food rich in minerals+vitamins
User :   and exercise for her?
Doctor :   more high protein food
User :   anything in particular?
Doctor :   like soya
Doctor :   eggs
Doctor :   fish
Doctor :   meat
Doctor :   fresh fruits
Doctor :   nuts
Doctor :   dates
User :   exercise
Doctor :   r the best
Doctor :   then u can start light exercise
Doctor :   yoga
Doctor :   going for a walk wd ur wife
Doctor :   spending quality time wd her
Doctor :   may be on weekends
User :   we do that, we also indulge in travelling together
Doctor :   k
Doctor :   try to dveopl more interst
User :   any other advice?
Doctor :   well u have to be patient enough
Doctor :   will take some tme
User :   does more frequency of sex itself improve interest/
Doctor :   & if u follow these religiously
Doctor :   then u will make it better
User :   does child birth bring change to her appeal for better
Doctor :   yeah it will improve
Doctor :   Is there anything else I can help you with?
Doctor :   yeah for sure
User :   no except if you have any thing in particular.
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User :   is this a part of Dr Reddy's labs
Doctor :   well no
User :   then?
Doctor :   we r of different organization
User :   base?
Doctor :   we based in bangalore
Doctor :   Have you filled the feedback form
User :   ok, thanks a lot Dr.
Doctor :   Thanks for consulting HealthcareMagic. Bye for now. Please refer your friends to our service.
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User :   sure
Doctor :   thanks for chatting with us
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User :   whats the validity of my payment? is it only for the day?
Doctor :   bye!!!
Doctor :   yeah
User :   hi
Doctor :   hi
Doctor :   r u there?
Doctor :   I have to close this window since there is no response from your side, please get back to us if you need further medical advice.
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