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Losing erection quickly and hard to sleep. Suggest treatment - Online Doctor Chats

Date : 14-Nov-2013
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Very Good Posted in: Men's Health
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Practicing since : 2004
Answered : 1773 Questions
Doctor:How can I help you?
User:am 28 male, want to chat with a doctor, who can help me with sex related issues
Doctor:Okay, I am Dr here, you may please proceed with your question.
User:is there any specialist avialbe in your team
Doctor:I am sorry, we do not have specialists available for chats..
User:if yes, that would be a great help,
Doctor:I am sure, I will be able to answer your questions
Doctor:if you wish you may go ahead
Doctor:We do not have any specialists available for chat
Doctor:if you need a specialist to answer, you may post a question from your dashboard
Doctor:chose the option, ask a specialist
User:i got married 24 months back, in starting i faced some problem for 2 months while having sex for erection
User:but after proper diet and food, it was perfect
User:but now again am facing same problem from last 6 weeks
Doctor:Similar problems?
User:can you please guide me for this,
Doctor:problems with erection?
User:yes, but i don't want to take any medicine,
User:i eat well, including fruits, curd and chiken
Doctor:can you describe your problem in detail, is it like, you don't any erection, or is it like you get erection but lose it quickly?
Doctor:That is good, please answer my questions if you don't mind
User:am 6 feet 86kg, i get erection but lose it before time
Doctor:okay, what do you do?
Doctor:how is your work life?
User:am working in pvt company, office 9 to 7 , then come home , have food and sleep
Doctor:what kind of job is that?
User:i do not smoke, take drinks once im a week
User:mainly office job and travle 70 km daily by car and
Doctor:what is that office job? what kind of job is that?
User:am not able to understnd
User:mainly sales job dealing with clinets
User:what am getting : it is mainly due to stress and lack of sleep
User:i hardly sleep for 7 hours
Doctor:what do you sell to your clients?
Doctor:I would like to know if you have any stress in your life
User:or it is due to over dose of drinks
Doctor:I will answer your questions
Doctor:Please answer mine, so that I can understand your problem better
User:i sell insurance
User:general insurance
Doctor:so is there any stress in your job?
User:oka, sorry
User:yes kind off
User:but not so much
Doctor:is there any recent change in the work side?
User:am spending more time on XXXXXXX
Doctor:okay, the work stress, when did you start noticing it?
User:and yes i thibk a lot
User:sinece am facing this issue
Doctor:Okay, that means, it almost establishes your stress as the cause, don't you think?
User:r u there
Doctor:and if I may, what do you think about?
Doctor:What kind of thoughts do you get?
User:all kinds of from time managemnt to cash management
Doctor:Here is what my suggestion to you
Doctor:1. Stop worrying
Doctor:2. Stop thinking too much about cash and time
Doctor:you get only one life and that is meaningful only if you enjoy that life
Doctor:so, plan your day such that you come back ealry
Doctor:and spend more time with your wife
User:i have an allergy from cold and dust, so i used to take allegra 180 before my marriage
Doctor:appreciate what she does
User:an every occasion,
Doctor:Forget that allegra
Doctor:concentrate on what I am saying
User:after marriage i stop taking any medicines and too healthy diets... so it wa sokay
User:okay, tellme,
Doctor:4.Spend more time with your wife
Doctor:5. Enjoy the small talk, and simple fact of being together
Doctor:6. Don't try to have sexual intercourse straight away
Doctor:7. Enjoy the foreplay
Doctor:8. Let go of the office work when you come home
Doctor:office work should be let at the office
Doctor:Just enjoy every moment you are in the house,
Doctor:indulge in doing something interesting, together
Doctor:like reading, or playing some game
Doctor:appreciate how your wife spends her time when you are work
User:ok dat we do
Doctor:what does your wife do?
User:she alsowors
User:bt she word9 to 5
Doctor:and she comes back from work and does all the house work too
Doctor:imagine what it like for her
Doctor:if she also lets her work come in between, how would life be?
Doctor:so let go of your work when you leave the office, money is not everything, the moments you spend with your loved ones are more valuable
Doctor:reduce your stress, and I am sure you will have very enjoyable sex life
Doctor:is that agreed?
User:really thanks
Doctor:you are most welcome
User:any special fruits i can take
User:or exercie and walk
Doctor:just eat normal food
Doctor:exercise or play any game for about half an hour daily
Doctor:preferably along with your wife
Doctor:live the life
Doctor:enjoy the chance of being alive
Doctor:is there anything else I can help you with?
User:one more question, am getting cold from last 6 days, so can i start allegra agaian
Doctor:no proble
User:or recofast
User:okay thanks
Doctor:problem, but I would advice you to consult a doctor before starting the medicine
Doctor:I saw your question which you posted, shall I delete that?
Doctor:Have a good life.
Doctor:be happy
Doctor:and stop worrying
User:my parents 62 dad and mother 59 take some health supplement , i forgot the name
User:can i take the same medicine
Doctor:not required if you are eating good food and fruits
User:some MNC, which sells thrumembers
Doctor:it is called a supplement for a reason
User:company name is... they take tablets
User:okay i willl take nomedicines
User:really thanks
User:dr ,r u there
Doctor:You are welcome
Doctor:Is there anything else I can help you with?
User:no. thanks a ton
Doctor:Okay, goodnight
Doctor:take care
User:u too
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