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Lack of sexual desire and erectile dysfunction - Online Doctor Chats

Date : 21-Feb-2012
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Very Good Posted in: Men's Health
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User :   Hi
User :   R u there
User :   I want to consult for ed problem
User :   ???
Doctor :   Hi This is Dr. XXX
Doctor :   How may I help you?
User :   good after noon
Doctor :   Good afternoon.
User :   Doc i have problem related to ED
Doctor :   Please proceed and explain in detail.
User :   my age 30 yr male
User :   I am felling lack of desire can u help me
Doctor :   Surely I can help you. I need to ask few more questions to understand the problem in depth.
User :   ys pls ask
Doctor :   Are you able to achieve erections when you get arousal?
User :   some time.. not always
User :   see basically i want long .. erection time,,,
Doctor :   Do you get night time erections(apart from having intercourse)?
User :   but i found that sm it i long when i control it but sm time it is short
Doctor :   Do you have early morning erections?
User :   ys.. also in morning time when wakeup
User :   but nowadays not complete erection i as i feel
Doctor :   How many times in week do you have these?
User :   in morning n even during intercourse as well
User :   I hv tried XXX
User :   but there is head ache problem
User :   r u there..?
User :   ..??????????
Doctor :   Yes, I am here and reading your query.
User :   see i do sex 1-2 time in week..
User :   as i am living far from home
Doctor :   That is a good frequency.
User :   i am a smoker also...
Doctor :   Do you consume alcohol/
User :   but I am not satisfy.. bz before six I can control the erection as long I wanted but now ....!!!
User :   occasinally...only..
User :   ans now I left alcohal
Doctor :   Let me brief your problem once again
Doctor :   you have feeling for sex and you get erection for it as you think about sex
User :   ok
Doctor :   But the problem is you are not able to hold the erection for long time
User :   not so much
Doctor :   and you want to have sex for long time
User :   ys
Doctor :   Not so much of what...?
Doctor :   desire or erection
User :   feeling of sex..
User :   both dsire n erection
Doctor :   What is your occupation?
User :   can u pl telll me the reason for this
User :   right now I am a XXX
User :   before 4 month I was working in a company
User :   I left that joob n started my own bizz.. but u can say I have some mental presure for this
Doctor :   Most common reason for lack of desire and problem having erection is Stress at personal and professional life. The next cause is smoking
User :   I will try to quite the smok
Doctor :   So now you have to make sure that Stress does not interfere in your sexual life
User :   secondly as I hear from frnds ... I feel I hv less sex desire.. or capacity then other
Doctor :   You cannot compare yourself with any other persion in this world
User :   ys def I will try for this.. even I never bother much about the things
Doctor :   Every one is uniquely made
Doctor :   and your life is far different from others
Doctor :   Do not let your spirits down
User :   ok :)
Doctor :   Practice Yoga
Doctor :   and Meditation
User :   ok.
Doctor :   If it required meditate before you actually get into the bed room
Doctor :   Do simple breathing exercises which relaxes your mind
Doctor :   and the stress is gone
Doctor :   before it eats away your mind in the bed room
User :   see I am not o much stressed..
User :   I think I hv sm physically problem
Doctor :   Yes, smoking can cause phyical problem
Doctor :   Ofcourse you need to rule out few different things
Doctor :   with some tests
User :   secondly I am also thinking abt organ length n width
User :   which type of test required
Doctor :   They do not matter at all
Doctor :   Size does not matter in sex
Doctor :   You should be more confident to be able to satisfy your wife
User :   can size be increased anyway..?
User :   as mentioned in the website..
Doctor :   There is no way to increase i
Doctor :   it
Doctor :   If some website says abotu pills or exercises, please do not waste your time
Doctor :   or money
User :   so tell me wt should I do in this case to overcome the problem
Doctor :   First get the tests done
User :   test name.
Doctor :   CBC, Lipid profile, BMP,
Doctor :   Testosterone,
User :   ok .. after that
Doctor :   Blood pressure test, blood sugar tests
Doctor :   You can see a doctor with the report
Doctor :   and check if it is abnormal
User :   so what u will suggest right now..?
User :   any genrl medicaine
Doctor :   Tab CONFIDO, One tablet after dinner, one hour before you go to bed
Doctor :   for 15 bed
User :   one more thing is.. My heart beat remain high always ..
Doctor :   for 15 days
User :   some time it is 110-115 per min
User :   ok..
User :   is there any impect high heart beat on health
Doctor :   Generally not
User :   I am testing this since 1997
Doctor :   IT is still better to get a ECG test done and if required a Stress ECG done
User :   ok..
User :   any special type of food or lese to get rid of this sex problm
Doctor :   Eat more greens
User :   any side effect of confido..
Doctor :   Leaves, fibres
Doctor :   Reduce the fattty foods
User :   do u suggest herbal tab which shown in advrt
Doctor :   The tablet CONFIDO is herbal
User :   any oil or jel..
User :   ok..
Doctor :   and is XXX
Doctor :   product
Doctor :   No need
User :   so it will help me ..
Doctor :   Please try ti for 15 days
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