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Lack of sexual activity and erection troubles - Online Doctor Chats

Date : 13-Jan-2012
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Doctor :   hi
Doctor :   how can i help you?
User :   can u help me regarding my fears about se
User :   sex
Doctor :   ok
Doctor :   please go ahead
User :   since i am single, and have not done actual se
User :   sex
User :   in my younger days, I could get errection even if I think about a girl
Doctor :   ok
User :   but now, I have to manipulate with my hand to get errection and do masturbation....
Doctor :   ok
User :   Is it normal, or am having some problem
Doctor :   no
Doctor :   its normal
Doctor :   this is because
Doctor :   additional worries add up
Doctor :   as we become older
User :   and when I do masturbation I do it in different manner
Doctor :   and we may not feel the same way about things
User :   I donot move my foreskin
Doctor :   we lose interest in things which previously interested us before
Doctor :   thats normal
Doctor :   are you there?
User :   yes sir ...
Doctor :   ok
User :   you are helping me gain some confidence
Doctor :   are you having difficulty retracting your fore skin?
User :   when it is in normal condition, then every day while taking bath, I retract it
Doctor :   ok
User :   but i have never tried to retract it when it is errect..
User :   because I never do masturbation by retracting fore skin
Doctor :   ok
Doctor :   if you feel a tightening sensation
User :   yes
Doctor :   then you can get it evaluated
Doctor :   you may need a circumcision
User :   so you mean to say, I am having some problem
Doctor :   as the tightening may cause problems in urination in the future
Doctor :   it has nothing to do with erection
User :   but 4-5 years back, when I got my medical test, they examine my penis too
Doctor :   ok
User :   but I was not adviced anything adverse
Doctor :   ok
User :   although at that time, it was not in errected position
Doctor :   yes
User :   doctor retracted it
User :   and said it is normal
Doctor :   is it hurting you when erect?
Doctor :   is there any pain?
User :   no
User :   no pain
User :   but when it is errect, forskin is always on top
Doctor :   ok
Doctor :   any other health problems you have?
User :   yes
Doctor :   ok
User :   I have high b/p
Doctor :   ok
User :   and maybe sugar too
Doctor :   are you taking any medications?
User :   I take medicines for bp
Doctor :   ok
Doctor :   regularly?
User :   yes
User :   but I am very confused about my sexuality
User :   I am not able to lead normal life, because of this
Doctor :   ok
Doctor :   did you get your blood sugar examined
Doctor :   what is the exact problem?
User :   last year, it was border line
Doctor :   ok
Doctor :   have you got it done recently?
User :   no
Doctor :   ok
User :   I take amre plus ( tablets ) every day
Doctor :   i suggest that you get your blood sugar tested
Doctor :   FBS, PPBS
User :   ok
Doctor :   I suggest to get the investigations done at an accredited and barcoded lab
Doctor :   ok
Doctor :   a grbs machine?
User :   are my problems curable
User :   I am already 43
Doctor :   you are taking bp medications
User :   yes
Doctor :   get your sugar tested
Doctor :   as for the foreskin
User :   ok sir, I will surely do it this week
User :   yes for foreskin
Doctor :   if its bothering you then you can seek a consultation
User :   you know for the last 2-3 weeks, I had some rashes on foreskin
Doctor :   ok
User :   then I used betnovate skin ointment
Doctor :   are you having any burning in the urine?
User :   now it is ok
Doctor :   ok
User :   no
Doctor :   ok
User :   no burning
Doctor :   then its nothing to worry
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User :   but I have to go for urine 2-3 times in night
Doctor :   try drinking less fluids before bed
User :   ok
Doctor :   i also suggest that you get your prostate examined
Doctor :   by a urologist
User :   usually I drink quite a lot of fluid before going to bed
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User :   yes it is
Doctor :   your contact no.?
User :   doctor I fear a lot
User :   about my problems
Doctor :   this is just a routine
Doctor :   procedure we do for every patient
User :   doctor, can I chat with you again...
Doctor :   we just keep them for future correspondence
Doctor :   yes
User :   atleast you say that I am normal
User :   I can build some confidence, and maybe able to meet you in person
Doctor :   in the matter of your sexual worries?
User :   yes...sexual worries
Doctor :   other than your high bp
User :   because I could never dare to discuss in person
Doctor :   i dont think there is anything wrong
User :   doctor I am 43
Doctor :   there is nothing to be worried about
User :   and still not done with sex
User :   this is the biggest worry in my life
Doctor :   just get a general checkup every 6 months or
Doctor :   1 year
Doctor :   ok
User :   oh..
User :   I thought I could get an appointment if you were
Doctor :   we offer only online consultation
User :   ok
User :   due you charge...for special consultantion too
Doctor :   we offer only free online consultation
Doctor :   we can fix an appointment with a specialist
Doctor :   if you wish
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Doctor :   thank you
Doctor :   Is there any thing else that I could help you with?
User :   if I again to chat with you, what I have to do
User :   want to chat with you again
Doctor :   just log in as before
User :   ok
User :   then can I ask for Dr
Doctor :   you can also mail us
Doctor :   yes
User :   ok..Sir
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Doctor :   anything else?
User :   I have noted the number
Doctor :   ok
User :   I would discuss more next time
Doctor :   ok
Doctor :   sure
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