Impulse control disorder - Online Doctor Chats
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User : Hi
User : may i knw from where?
User : ok...
User : i am not sure if mine is a problem which can be helped by a doctor
User : Let us discuss..
User : i get sudden compulsive urges to expose myself to the opposite sex
User : i have tried to control myself...but at those moments i just cannot
User : What is your gender?
User : i am male
User : How old are you?
User : 25
User : Have you ever attacked anybody?
User : no
User : i would never ever hurt a woman
User : 100% confidential
User : i respect all woman...
User : never hurt any woman
User : Goog
User : never violent
User : *Good
User : just a urge to expose myself
User : What about your emotional control? anger, control?
User : cant explain it at all
User : I got it
User : emotionally...just horny i guess
User : but tryng to asses the other things
User : really not sure
User : Do you have brothgers and sisters?
User : have a brother...elder
User : How is ur relation with dad amd mom and bro?
User : Do get angry on them?
User : i do get angry at times
User : Just trying to understand ur problem
User : be open
User : but it is good i wud say
User : i hate my extendd family though
User : *good
User : like uncles, aunties
User : cousins etc
User : That is differet
User : i do tht too
User : ok :)
User : Do you get good sleep ?
User : good sleep...i wud say yes
User : but i cant just sleep beyond 7 am
User : where u from
User : irrespective of hw much i have slept
User : goa
User : Do u stay alone or stay with family
User : with family
User : Do you have girl fr
User : Are you sexually active?
User : i fall in the" its complicated category"
User : xExplain
User : When did u had sex last time?
User : as in..not sure if we are still on or not...headed towards break up
User : ok
User : i have not had sex...just oral
User : Why not have regular sex
User : not before marriage
User : do u have hard time getting a fr
User : nope...oppurtunities r there plenty
User : * Ok u want to maitain tradition
User : i stop myself from tht..
User : I like u
User : told u man...i respect women...wud never hurt them
User : just this thing abt me drives me crazy
User : It is Impulse control disorder
User : there mny Impulse control problem
User : as a child i saw this neighbor (female) expose herself to some males during a fight
User : have a feelin this has its origins thr
User : what the female did ?
User : sorry if i am going off topic but i am trying to provide u all the info i can
User : no
User : it is relevant
User : go ahead..
User : she lifted her skirt and flashed her pussy
User : and said sumthin nasty
User : i was mayb in my early teens then
User : So impulse control is can be sex drie, angryness, spending money etc.
User : any quick relief methods for impulse control disorder?
User : Ok
User : Keep going
User : u r doing goog
User : express ...
User : thanks
User : i just wanna stop this from happening
User : ur past emotional feelings may be related to sex drive
User : Now if u need to stop u need regular counselling or medication
User : another problem is i dont knw who to contact
User : The medicatiinbs called anti manic medications like Vaparin 500mg daily works great for impulse control
User : the only way i was goin to express myself is to an online doc
User : I request u u consult Psychiatrist and get prescription
User : OK
User : i can never talk abt myself to males offline
User : explian..
User : as in
User : i am a introvert
User : i help a lot of ppl with their problems
User : but can never explain my problems to others
User : especially males i wud say
User : dont knw why
User : OK
User : even in my life...most of my close friends are gals
User : guys r there but they dont get to knw the inner stuff
User : may that is the problem
User : Try to make good friends
User : Treat them as brothers
User : gud friends r thr
User : connect to them
User : Ok
User : but i cant just oopen up to them
User : But u r not sharing
User : anyway time is abt to run out
User : hw do i continue chattin with u in the future
User : and hw do i go abt tht medication
User : U may have to hide some things brother
User : If u tell every thing top fr , u will loose them
User : telling negatives with fr is not good
User : share with family
User : yes exactly
User : tell me hw to take the medication
User : u have t pay again and continuue the chat
User : Hope I have additional time
User : Bye
User : u thr
Doctor : Sorry, it will be difficult to transfer the chat
Doctor : as if i close the chat window, u may need to pay again
User : this is bullshit
Doctor : but if you dont mind u can continue the chat with me
Doctor : may i know which place are located in ?
User : can u access my chat
Doctor : and your phone no
Doctor : yes i can
Doctor : i am going thru it right now
User : can u pls go thru it?
User : ok good
Doctor : sure,
Doctor : ok
Doctor : the issue you are facing right is usually common in many males
Doctor : and usually they try to control it by various means
User : ok go on
Doctor : and you need not be ashamed of it or get anxious due to that
Doctor : may i know where you live ?
User : goa
Doctor : ok
Doctor : have you had any girlfriends or any partners ?
Doctor : Are you sexually active ?
User : never had sex...just orals
Doctor : ok
Doctor : how many times have you ever exposed to females ?
User : a lot of times
Doctor : This condition is called voyeurism
User : over the last many 3-4 yrs i guess
Doctor : and have you ever got into trouble due to that ?
User : impulse control disorder
User : nope never got into trouble...but i dont like doing it
User : Dr said sumthing abt vaparin 500mg...could you pls elaborate on tht
Doctor : may i know have you been diagnosed with that condition
User : Dr said my case is Impulse cpntrol disorder
User : this sucks...as u hve no clue of Jagdish chatted with me
User : and i have to repeat the same stuff again to u
Doctor : i do know that
Doctor : but do you have any such issues like inability to control your other impulses
User : nope only this impulse
User : i hate it...and i hate myself for doing it
Doctor : do u have any other such impulses other than this , that you need to expose yourself
Doctor : ok
User : nope
Doctor : you need not worry, as this condition does not need any medications
Doctor : I assure you that this condition can be controled by mental conditioning itslef
User : so hw do i control it
User : i have tried trying to control it myself over the last few yrs...but i cudnt
Doctor : can you give me , any prior occasion that made you expose yourself ?
Doctor : how many times have you done that in the last 1 month
Doctor : or in the last 1 year
User : i made a resolution to stop doing it this year
User : entire jan i didnt
Doctor : may i know your occupation
User : but february already 2 times
Doctor : that is good
User : i am a share market analyst
Doctor : may i know , that , what was the occasion, when u exposed yourself
Doctor : 'an with whom did you expose yourself ?
User : i mainly expose to migrant workers or college students
User : last case was ...migrant workers were construction a wall
Doctor : and these were women ?
User : yes
User : and i exposed from my house in a way they cud see it
Doctor : so did you expose your whole body or just your genitals ?
User : genitals
User : sumtimes whole body...but mainly i guess its genitals
Doctor : ok, you need not consider yourself as abnormal
Doctor : this is quite common in most males
Doctor : and more common in unmarried males
User : i need to control this..
User : 1) what kind of a doctor do i contact for this?
Doctor : you might need counselling by a psychiatrist
Doctor : but understan this, once you become sexually active, you will get out of this situation
Doctor : try to get a girlfriend
User : i know
Doctor : or try to get married
User : but sex is not wht i wanna do before marriage
User : and marriage is still many years later
Doctor : ok
User : i knw the inherent problem is being horny...only thing tht helps me masturbation...
Doctor : masturbation is ok, that is normal
User : is it normal to stimulate the prostate while masturbating?
Doctor : yes
Doctor : i will give you more pleasure
User : it says u r typing sumthin...
Doctor : yes
Doctor : i will give you a few tips
Doctor : 1. when ever u feel that way, count 1-100
User : and...
Doctor : 2. avoid the temptation to expose by getting out of there fast
Doctor : 3. think about some one you hate , when u get to that situation
Doctor : then that will displace the mind from the thing u want to do
Doctor : talking to a psychiatrist
Doctor : and putting it out in the open will help you control it
Doctor : this is called behavior therapy
Doctor : are u there ?
User : yes
Doctor : have u understood my advice ?
User : yes thinking
Doctor : also make a few more friends
Doctor : when u feel like exposing, just make a call to your friends , and talk about something else
Doctor : this will take off your mind and u can avoid doing that
User : gud things to do
User : :)
Doctor : ok
Doctor : this is the way, u need to approach this situation
Doctor : Are u having any other doubts or questions ?
Doctor : Are u there ?
User : yes
Doctor : I hope i have cleared all your doubts
Doctor : and have helped u to get out of this habit
Doctor : Are u there ?
Doctor : Thanks for consulting me here
Doctor : take care and bye for now
User : Hi
User : Hi
User : may i knw from where?
User : ok...
User : i am not sure if mine is a problem which can be helped by a doctor
User : Let us discuss..
User : i get sudden compulsive urges to expose myself to the opposite sex
User : i have tried to control myself...but at those moments i just cannot
User : What is your gender?
User : i am male
User : How old are you?
User : 25
User : Have you ever attacked anybody?
User : no
User : i would never ever hurt a woman
User : 100% confidential
User : i respect all woman...
User : never hurt any woman
User : Goog
User : never violent
User : *Good
User : just a urge to expose myself
User : What about your emotional control? anger, control?
User : cant explain it at all
User : I got it
User : emotionally...just horny i guess
User : but tryng to asses the other things
User : really not sure
User : Do you have brothgers and sisters?
User : have a brother...elder
User : How is ur relation with dad amd mom and bro?
User : Do get angry on them?
User : i do get angry at times
User : Just trying to understand ur problem
User : be open
User : but it is good i wud say
User : i hate my extendd family though
User : *good
User : like uncles, aunties
User : cousins etc
User : That is differet
User : i do tht too
User : ok :)
User : Do you get good sleep ?
User : good sleep...i wud say yes
User : but i cant just sleep beyond 7 am
User : where u from
User : irrespective of hw much i have slept
User : goa
User : Do u stay alone or stay with family
User : with family
User : Do you have girl fr
User : Are you sexually active?
User : i fall in the" its complicated category"
User : xExplain
User : When did u had sex last time?
User : as in..not sure if we are still on or not...headed towards break up
User : ok
User : i have not had sex...just oral
User : Why not have regular sex
User : not before marriage
User : do u have hard time getting a fr
User : nope...oppurtunities r there plenty
User : * Ok u want to maitain tradition
User : i stop myself from tht..
User : I like u
User : told u man...i respect women...wud never hurt them
User : just this thing abt me drives me crazy
User : It is Impulse control disorder
User : there mny Impulse control problem
User : as a child i saw this neighbor (female) expose herself to some males during a fight
User : have a feelin this has its origins thr
User : what the female did ?
User : sorry if i am going off topic but i am trying to provide u all the info i can
User : no
User : it is relevant
User : go ahead..
User : she lifted her skirt and flashed her pussy
User : and said sumthin nasty
User : i was mayb in my early teens then
User : So impulse control is can be sex drie, angryness, spending money etc.
User : any quick relief methods for impulse control disorder?
User : Ok
User : Keep going
User : u r doing goog
User : express ...
User : thanks
User : i just wanna stop this from happening
User : ur past emotional feelings may be related to sex drive
User : Now if u need to stop u need regular counselling or medication
User : another problem is i dont knw who to contact
User : The medicatiinbs called anti manic medications like Vaparin 500mg daily works great for impulse control
User : the only way i was goin to express myself is to an online doc
User : I request u u consult Psychiatrist and get prescription
User : OK
User : i can never talk abt myself to males offline
User : explian..
User : as in
User : i am a introvert
User : i help a lot of ppl with their problems
User : but can never explain my problems to others
User : especially males i wud say
User : dont knw why
User : OK
User : even in my life...most of my close friends are gals
User : guys r there but they dont get to knw the inner stuff
User : may that is the problem
User : Try to make good friends
User : Treat them as brothers
User : gud friends r thr
User : connect to them
User : Ok
User : but i cant just oopen up to them
User : But u r not sharing
User : anyway time is abt to run out
User : hw do i continue chattin with u in the future
User : and hw do i go abt tht medication
User : U may have to hide some things brother
User : If u tell every thing top fr , u will loose them
User : telling negatives with fr is not good
User : share with family
User : yes exactly
User : tell me hw to take the medication
User : u have t pay again and continuue the chat
User : Hope I have additional time
User : Bye
User : u thr
Doctor : Sorry, it will be difficult to transfer the chat
Doctor : as if i close the chat window, u may need to pay again
User : this is bullshit
Doctor : but if you dont mind u can continue the chat with me
Doctor : may i know which place are located in ?
User : can u access my chat
Doctor : and your phone no
Doctor : yes i can
Doctor : i am going thru it right now
User : can u pls go thru it?
User : ok good
Doctor : sure,
Doctor : ok
Doctor : the issue you are facing right is usually common in many males
Doctor : and usually they try to control it by various means
User : ok go on
Doctor : and you need not be ashamed of it or get anxious due to that
Doctor : may i know where you live ?
User : goa
Doctor : ok
Doctor : have you had any girlfriends or any partners ?
Doctor : Are you sexually active ?
User : never had sex...just orals
Doctor : ok
Doctor : how many times have you ever exposed to females ?
User : a lot of times
Doctor : This condition is called voyeurism
User : over the last many 3-4 yrs i guess
Doctor : and have you ever got into trouble due to that ?
User : impulse control disorder
User : nope never got into trouble...but i dont like doing it
User : Dr said sumthing abt vaparin 500mg...could you pls elaborate on tht
Doctor : may i know have you been diagnosed with that condition
User : Dr said my case is Impulse cpntrol disorder
User : this sucks...as u hve no clue of Jagdish chatted with me
User : and i have to repeat the same stuff again to u
Doctor : i do know that
Doctor : but do you have any such issues like inability to control your other impulses
User : nope only this impulse
User : i hate it...and i hate myself for doing it
Doctor : do u have any other such impulses other than this , that you need to expose yourself
Doctor : ok
User : nope
Doctor : you need not worry, as this condition does not need any medications
Doctor : I assure you that this condition can be controled by mental conditioning itslef
User : so hw do i control it
User : i have tried trying to control it myself over the last few yrs...but i cudnt
Doctor : can you give me , any prior occasion that made you expose yourself ?
Doctor : how many times have you done that in the last 1 month
Doctor : or in the last 1 year
User : i made a resolution to stop doing it this year
User : entire jan i didnt
Doctor : may i know your occupation
User : but february already 2 times
Doctor : that is good
User : i am a share market analyst
Doctor : may i know , that , what was the occasion, when u exposed yourself
Doctor : 'an with whom did you expose yourself ?
User : i mainly expose to migrant workers or college students
User : last case was ...migrant workers were construction a wall
Doctor : and these were women ?
User : yes
User : and i exposed from my house in a way they cud see it
Doctor : so did you expose your whole body or just your genitals ?
User : genitals
User : sumtimes whole body...but mainly i guess its genitals
Doctor : ok, you need not consider yourself as abnormal
Doctor : this is quite common in most males
Doctor : and more common in unmarried males
User : i need to control this..
User : 1) what kind of a doctor do i contact for this?
Doctor : you might need counselling by a psychiatrist
Doctor : but understan this, once you become sexually active, you will get out of this situation
Doctor : try to get a girlfriend
User : i know
Doctor : or try to get married
User : but sex is not wht i wanna do before marriage
User : and marriage is still many years later
Doctor : ok
User : i knw the inherent problem is being horny...only thing tht helps me masturbation...
Doctor : masturbation is ok, that is normal
User : is it normal to stimulate the prostate while masturbating?
Doctor : yes
Doctor : i will give you more pleasure
User : it says u r typing sumthin...
Doctor : yes
Doctor : i will give you a few tips
Doctor : 1. when ever u feel that way, count 1-100
User : and...
Doctor : 2. avoid the temptation to expose by getting out of there fast
Doctor : 3. think about some one you hate , when u get to that situation
Doctor : then that will displace the mind from the thing u want to do
Doctor : talking to a psychiatrist
Doctor : and putting it out in the open will help you control it
Doctor : this is called behavior therapy
Doctor : are u there ?
User : yes
Doctor : have u understood my advice ?
User : yes thinking
Doctor : also make a few more friends
Doctor : when u feel like exposing, just make a call to your friends , and talk about something else
Doctor : this will take off your mind and u can avoid doing that
User : gud things to do
User : :)
Doctor : ok
Doctor : this is the way, u need to approach this situation
Doctor : Are u having any other doubts or questions ?
Doctor : Are u there ?
User : yes
Doctor : I hope i have cleared all your doubts
Doctor : and have helped u to get out of this habit
Doctor : Are u there ?
Doctor : Thanks for consulting me here
Doctor : take care and bye for now
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