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Impotency, smoking and alcohol addiction - Online Doctor Chats

Date : 21-Feb-2012
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Very Good Posted in: Men's Health
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User :   hello doctor .. iam XXX
Doctor :   hello
Doctor :   i am Dr XXX here
User :   heloo dr. XXX how r u?
Doctor :   i am good
User :   by the way i need to get some solutions regarding my sexual problems
Doctor :   tell me your query
User :   iam married since 2yrs. and my wife works in XXX
User :   moreover iam concerned about my erectile disfunction
Doctor :   tell me more please
User :   and the size of my penis.
User :   it is 4.5inches in size and it really makes me anxietied when i consider it.
Doctor :   dont be
Doctor :   for a normal satisfactory penetration its ok
User :   and when i have a intecourse.. i get ejaculated within 15 seconds. i dont know how to control it.
Doctor :   may i know your age ?
User :   iam 29yrs now
User :   since from my 16yrs.. i use to mastrubate everyday. was that a problem?
Doctor :   since when are you facing the problem about erectile dysfunction
User :   from the time i got married.
Doctor :   so you are not getting hard erections ?
User :   i take alcohol drinks everyday to get to sleep.. but i cant sleep even though because of these kind of inferiority complex
Doctor :   do you consume alcohol
User :   no i dont get hard erections
Doctor :   ok
Doctor :   do you smoke ?
User :   yes i consume alcohol
Doctor :   how much do you drink ?
User :   i do smoke 5 to 8 cigarettes everyday
User :   i drink upto half bottle of alcohol on an average everyday
User :   i mean half litre
Doctor :   you know what Mr XXX , impotence at any age is completely curable
Doctor :   now we have to first pinpoint the problem
User :   ok. please guide me with some advice
Doctor :   the NUMBER ONE cause of impotence in younger age group is alcohol
Doctor :   and then comes smoking
Doctor :   its very clear
User :   ok Doctor. but i think i cannot go to sleep without consuming alcohol. please help me in that also.
Doctor :   sure
Doctor :   its simple
User :   i tried to go to sleep without alcohol oneday. but really i went to sleep in the early morning by 5am
Doctor :   just dont drink it , you might not be able to sleep . well thats ok one night .and if it happens again no problem, i will be very honest with you
Doctor :   you will not die because you didnt sleep for 2 days
Doctor :   but aclohol will sure kill you
Doctor :   and you know that
User :   ok doctor
Doctor :   do you exercise
User :   and regarding smoking.. i smoke only when i drink.
User :   not regular exercise i do.. maybe i jog for 15 mins perday .. as a routine of 3 to 4 times per week
Doctor :   well so if you stop one you will get rid of the other too
Doctor :   well if you stop alcohol i can give you a guarantee that your sex life will improve tremendously
User :   i even stoped it for 1 yr and again started. i dont know how to leave it now.
User :   ok then i will stop alcohol if it wil help me in my sexual life
Doctor :   its very tough i can understand
Doctor :   why dont you take nicotine patch or gum and try
Doctor :   you need to motivate your self
User :   i dont crave to smoke doctor. but i smoke only when i have alcohol.
Doctor :   see you are very young you have your whole life in front of you
Doctor :   alcohol is a slow poison
Doctor :   it will affect you in many ways
Doctor :   you have to take this step
Doctor :   its for your own good , once you will stop it you wiill see that change in yoru life
User :   ok doctor. i will leave alcohol in case if it is going to help me in my main problems
Doctor :   you will be a new man
Doctor :   i give you guarantee
User :   ok thank u for ur hope
Doctor :   its not hope i believe in you
Doctor :   its hard but not impossible
User :   i wont waste the time u spend me doctor. u can believe me. and one more thing i want to tell u
Doctor :   sure
User :   i bought some penile massage cream in XXX to massage my penis for making it grow. and to cure premature ejaculation
User :   it is called VIAREX CREAM
User :   but no results
Doctor :   no its all nonsense kindly dont use it
Doctor :   there is no way to increase the size with creams and oils ...
User :   ok then please guide me with what i have to do for that
User :   because i lose confidence because of size i have and of PE
Doctor :   well your size is enough for a good healthy sex life and drinking alcohol will make you impotent
Doctor :   female vagina is capable of feeling only 3 inches
Doctor :   so dont worry yoru size is ok
Doctor :   just dont get stressed ...try joining a gym.. exercise . and when you come back tired you will automatically will get great sleep
User :   oh .. ok doctor. i was not aware about this. but my partner loses interest only when i finish my climax within 15seconds.. so i try for the second and it prolongs upto atleast 15mins for second atempt.\
Doctor :   you are at a stage where you can reverse your condition
Doctor :   thats why i want you to take proper care of your self
User :   ok doctor. so no need to try to increase the size of the penis right?
Doctor :   let me tell you few things u can do for premature ejaculation
Doctor :   If your arousal levels are getting too high and a climax is beginning, take a deep breath and think about something else, something very boring if possible. When you are less aroused but maintaining an erection you can then continue.
Doctor :   If you find yourself nearing climax withdraw your penis from your partner and allow yourself to relax enough to prevent ejaculation. By starting and stopping sexual stimulation you can learn to prolong the sex act.
Doctor :   Stimulate your partner to a state of high arousal before you have your genitals touched, that way ejaculation and orgasm can be achieved about the same time.
User :   i do mastrubation everyday night to get my mind get relaxed and not to get into wrong paths. it is good if i mastrubate everyday?
Doctor :   and please stop drinking
Doctor :   masturbation is ok
User :   ok doctor.
User :   one more clarification.
Doctor :   take care and follow my advice
Doctor :   sure
Doctor :   tell me
Doctor :   are you there
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