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Getting married, worried about sexual ability. Advise? - Online Doctor Chats

Date : 01-Mar-2013
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User:afraid to get married.
hi, I am 27 year old male. my hieght is 5'8.5" and my weight is 68 Kgs. Recently my perents are searching a spouse for me. But I am afraid about my sexual abilities. Actually I don't have any experience of sexual relation. I masturbates almost thrice in a week and ejaculate within 30 to 50 seconds. If I am shadowing with a pillow then I get ejaculate by stimulating at my pubic area within a or two minutes. once I got a chance to foreplaying with a girl but I ejaculated very soon during foreplay. that may be premature ejaculation but I am not sure. so what is the suggestion for me. I never drink alcohol but smoke regulerly.
Doctor:Please give me a few minutes, so that i can go thru ur history
Doctor:first and foremost, there is no need to worry about your sexual ability
Doctor:the issues abotu sexual doubt arise, in almost all men, and is due to misconception
Doctor:wrong info obtained by watching adult movies or online stuff can cause more doubt
User:So may I know what is normal duration of penetration
Doctor:since you have had , not sexual expericence, it is normal to be doubtful
Doctor:first and foremost , normal intercourse can vary from 5 to 10 minutes minimum, and with practice and self training, it can be increased to upto 30 mins or longer
User:Thanks a lot.
Doctor:most men, ejaculate within 2-3 minutes during masturbation, so , it seems , that you do not have an issue with it
Doctor:just be confident and get married,
Doctor:but, take your time, with your fiance or wife, so that you guys can understand each other
Doctor:spend some time, without having intercourse for few days , and just explore, what you like
Doctor:once , both are comfortable, and you are in proper control, proper sex can ensure
Doctor:hope u followed my suggestions
User:Thank you again. Have a good day.
Doctor:U too
Doctor:bye for now
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