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Depression, unable to quit drinking - Online Doctor Chats

Date : 13-Jan-2012
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Doctor :   Hi
Doctor :   Are you back XXXX?
User :   yeah
Doctor :   Ok
Doctor :   Tell me
Doctor :   what do you think now?
User :   the same as i left the same as yesturday
Doctor :   Ok.
Doctor :   I was asking that you didnt agree with what i said
Doctor :   why is that?
User :   it sounded like he died becauses he deserved it i dont know i dont know anything any more
Doctor :   no
Doctor :   i didnt mean it that way
Doctor :   i am sorry if i meant that way
User :   if anyone did deserve it it would more likly be me
Doctor :   There is nothing like someone deserves to die.
Doctor :   Do you believe in God?
User :   i did a few years back but not now
Doctor :   Ok.
Doctor :   I am not talking about him, I was talking about you.
Doctor :   Why do you feel that you have no purpose?
User :   i dont have a purpose at all , i dont no what to think half the time i get drunk and i go out and dont come back for days
Doctor :   Ok.
Doctor :   May be you should dry up first and cut the drinking.
User :   i just cant do that it makes me feel better
Doctor :   Why dont you try remaining dry for a day?
User :   i cant
Doctor :   the drink is probably making it worse.
Doctor :   may be you should join a de addiction centre.
Doctor :   have you considered that?
User :   im not addicted
Doctor :   Ok.
Doctor :   Then why dont you try quitting it for a few days?
Doctor :   and see the difference?
Doctor :   try to do something on the net as you are good at it.
Doctor :   what do you think?
User :   i think not i dont want to be baack at squar 1
Doctor :   Why would that be square one?
Doctor :   you seem to be good at accessing the net, isnt that so?
User :   the drink got me to block some pain
Doctor :   How long can you run away from the pain? May be it is time that you faced it.
User :   i cant
Doctor :   Why not?
User :   i just cant
Doctor :   did you ever try recently?
User :   ive never concidered it
Doctor :   try it once
Doctor :   think about it
User :   i cant
Doctor :   today
Doctor :   just consider what i told you
Doctor :   will see if you feel the same way tomorrow.
Doctor :   Please fill the feedback form say done when done
Doctor :   Have you filled the feedback form which I have sent?
User :   how come your closing chat?
Doctor :   I am not
Doctor :   just asking for your feedback
Doctor :   this is rpoutine procedure we ask
User :   ok
Doctor :   Have you filled the feedback form?
User :   yep
Doctor :   Ok.
Doctor :   Tell me would you think about avoiding drink for some time?
User :   i cant
User :   i live right next to off license
Doctor :   I am not asking you to quit. am asking you to think about it.
User :   there isnt anything else to do in my sad life
User :   any way what are these stronger pills you said about yesturday?
Doctor :   why do you think your life is sad?
User :   i dont think it is but i do believe i shouldnt be here
Doctor :   I suggest that you think about quitting drink for another day.
Doctor :   I want to talk to you when you are sober, not when you are on vodka
User :   it wont make any diffrence i woke up sober felt the same
Doctor :   Just try talking to me when you are sober'
User :   i cant wait to 9 in the morning
Doctor :   Just try it once.
User :   i really cant
User :   i have to much in the house to stop
Doctor :   I didnt get you.
Doctor :   Ok
Doctor :   you said that you are not addicted, then why do you care whether there is booze in the house or not?
User :   if its there i drink it
Doctor :   then dont you think you are addicted?
User :   im clutching it in my hands i dont know wever to drink it
Doctor :   put it aside
Doctor :   and try
User :   im getting abeer instead soz
Doctor :   OK
User :   im back
Doctor :   Ok.
Doctor :   Try giving it up and talking to me when you are sober.
User :   i am sober now
Doctor :   As I wouldnt be making sense to you when you are drunk.
Doctor :   I doubt it. No one is sober after vodka and beer.
User :   compared to every other day i am im normally through a litre of vodka and 8 beers
Doctor :   Ok
Doctor :   That still is drunk according to me
Doctor :   I want to see how you sound like when you are completely sober
User :   you didnt answer me you said you would tell me about stronger tabs
User :   im already got the shakes how on earth can i go with out the vodka for that long?
Doctor :   when you are sober I will tell you as I dont give prescriptions to drunk people
Doctor :   Ok
Doctor :   Still tell me will you come back tomorrow without the drink?
User :   there isnt any promises saturday is my main day
Doctor :   what is the main day?
Doctor :   I didnt get you
User :   to drink i normally dont eat or sleep tonight just watch films, i dont hardly eat anyway
Doctor :   Ok
User :   im sorry this vodka is doing my head in its staring at me
Doctor :   Ok
Doctor :   Try to come back sober tomorrow, without any vodka or beer'
User :   i cant remember a day i have gone without it
Doctor :   Ok
Doctor :   Thats why lets see how you feel without it tomorrow.
User :   by the way i tried to ring my uncles mum yesturday before i went beach but she wasnt having any of it so i just went beach with 2 litres of vodka and got drunk took my stress out on a wall and slept in my beach hut
Doctor :   Ok
Doctor :   Thats bad
Doctor :   she was being foolish
Doctor :   I appreciate that you took my advice
Doctor :   I will see you tomorrow then
Doctor :   when you are sober
Doctor :   think about what i told you today
Doctor :   about purpose
Doctor :   bye for now
User :   please dont go
Doctor :   ok'
Doctor :   tell me
User :   i trust you you are the only person i talk to thats sad aint it
User :   i understand that
Doctor :   Thanks
User :   soz ignore that
Doctor :   Thats ok
Doctor :   I will be always there.
Doctor :   You can ping me during the timings
User :   my life is a mess aint it
Doctor :   no, it can happen to any one
Doctor :   believe me
User :   the reason i went to the beach last night was because imwas sat in the living room look right at those pills and chucked them all over the floor and walked out
User :   i wanted to go back
Doctor :   Ok.
Doctor :   Good
Doctor :   Thats very good that you chucked the pills
User :   my dog even hates me
User :   and cats
Doctor :   Thats not true
Doctor :   animals cant hate that way
User :   yes it is
User :   i have a huskey and he hates me hes een bitten me
Doctor :   Ok.
User :   good that vodka blocks out pain
Doctor :   How did that happen?
User :   beach last night
Doctor :   Ok.
Doctor :   May be you should get it checked once. Did it receive its rabies shots?
User :   i dont know its fine it doesnt hurt
User :   hes i my bad books though
Doctor :   Ok.
Doctor :   Thats ok
Doctor :   I have patients waiting on the chat. I have to go.But I would still like to talk to you when you are sober,
Doctor :   Preferably tomorrow.
User :   might be on later dunno bout tomorrow, XXXXXXXX drink the last of vodka and beer probly e paraletic!
Doctor :   Try to come back without the drink.
Doctor :   Bye for now.
User :   im so unhappy might talk if im here bye
Doctor :   you will be here.
Doctor :   And I will be waiting tomorrow
Doctor :   bye
User :   how can you be so sure you said that yesturday and i nearly did
Doctor :   I know a fighter when I see one.
Doctor :   You are not the giving up type
Doctor :   Thats why.
Doctor :   Ok. I have to go now.
User :   i am i gave up years ago
Doctor :   bye for now.
Doctor :   will be waiting tomorrow
User :   ive done it before and i will do it again
Doctor :   will be waiting tomorrow
Doctor :   bye for now
User :   for nighing then soz
User :   night
User :   thanks for your help
User :   im sorry Dr. XXXXXXXX didnt no i hadnt sign off of down pub now speak to maybe tomorrow or tonight dunno
User :   Dr. XXX??????
User :   i have good news
User :   for once!
User :   ok your fed up with me i'll go
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