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Depression, 2 years after wedding - Online Doctor Chats

Date : 13-Jan-2012
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Doctor :   Hi
Doctor :   How can I help you?
User :   is it doc shiva?
User :   this is XXXXXXXX
Doctor :   Yes
Doctor :   Hi please go ahead
Doctor :   AAAAAAA Please take your time to type all your problems
Doctor :   I am here to assist you
User :   my husband already told u my case history and u want 2 talk 2 me
Doctor :   Yes
User :   actauall, always i upset n i cannt wash all thing from my mind n want 2 cry, every a small thing gives me tention n i want 2 commit sucide many time, bcoz of my marriage, my hubby loves me a lot, but in my wedding there was some big problems between our families, till now i'm trying 2 adjut wid my inlaws but i feel that i'm a failure
User :   every time i feel that they not want me
User :   n think that there is any fault in me
Doctor :   Ok
User :   sometimes i feel that my inlaws love me a lot n some times i feel that this is not real
User :   my hubby went my home after 2 yrs from our wedding
Doctor :   Ok

User :   i wat equality wid my hubby n i want that if i respect his family n relatives then he should be same
User :   wid my parents
Doctor :   He was too much concerned about you

Doctor :   HE was saying that to me
Doctor :   during our long chat
User :   my huby is high temperd also
Doctor :   Ok
User :   i know
User :   i want a peaceful n happy life
Doctor :   Why cant you avoid your in laws for sometime
User :   now my brother in law is get married then i feel that my inlaws do everything for them
User :   how can i avoid all this
Doctor :   What is your husband saying?
Doctor :   to you when you put these across
User :   when i get angry then i want 2cry
User :   no but i want a happy family
User :   n my hubby's happyness is also meaningful 4 me
User :   i live in gabarone n my inlaws r in u.p.
User :   but 4 some months n 1 year after my wedding troubled me a lot
User :   actually i dont forget small thing n take tention also
Doctor :   Do you know your upset and crying is not helping anyone

Doctor :   not you
Doctor :   and in return you are losing your peace of mind
User :   when i depressed then i feelt some thimes dazzyness n weakness n some thing in my body
User :   i know
User :   i want 2 get rid of all this

User :   but i cant bear any wrong thing wid me
Doctor :   You are not wrong
Doctor :   Do you have any evidence that you are wrong
Doctor :   Do your in laws have any evideence that you are wrong
User :   they dont say anything directlly
User :   but i feel smaall things
Doctor :   Look you are married and intelligent lady
Doctor :   You have lot of other productive things to do
Doctor :   that worrying about what your in laws say
User :   some times that i feel that i never ready as a bride n there is a grand wedding in inlaws
User :   i want 2 save some memories wid my wedding my reception
User :   but there is nothing except tentions
Doctor :   First you should change the process of your thinking
Doctor :   Leave the negative thinking
Doctor :   leave the worries behind
Doctor :   itâ??s easier for most people to think in a negative way rather than in a positive manner.
Doctor :   it is mainly because, thinking in a positive manner requires some efforts
Doctor :   Do not be influenced by the wordings of your in laws
Doctor :   or the short tempered
Doctor :   husband
Doctor :   You are strong female
Doctor :   You should be able to withstand
Doctor :   Try to be constructive
Doctor :   No one will like a negative and upset person
Doctor :   Do not drain your energy which is powerful
Doctor :   in being dull and gloomy
Doctor :   People with negativity constantly find problems in every situation that they encounter.

Doctor :   usually getting distressed about things that they dont have control of
Doctor :   So how should you stop thinking
Doctor :   negatively
Doctor :   Did you follow what all I said about negative people
Doctor :   I firmly believe
Doctor :   that you are not that kind of lady
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