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Date : 21-Feb-2012
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User :   I'm a little embarrassed asking but am a little concerned. My girlfriend and I started oral sex. I have never had a problem being up to the task before. I had no trouble getting an erection and keeping it but was unable to climax. This made both of us feel bad. I've heard of impotence but don't think this is the same thing... is it? I am able to climax after self stimulation so.. .everything works. I'm just concerned that I was unable to climax with her. I'm 28. Is there anything I can do?
Doctor :   Hi,\
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User :   Hi
Doctor :   I can assure you this is not impotence
User :   good!
User :   thank you
Doctor :   but the delayed ejaculation what you have is purely psychological
User :   I had just recovered from a cold... and this was the first time.
Doctor :   you just have to have a prolonged foreplay
User :   Could this contribute?
Doctor :   only then the ejaculation can occur successfully in her
Doctor :   No, this do not and never contribute to Impotence
User :   ok
User :   She was able to climax fine. Just not me.
User :   so felt like she did not do a good job
User :   :(
Doctor :   you have to motivate and praise her wel
Doctor :   that adds to her satisfaction and in turn to your satisfaction
User :   I'm nervous for it to happen again! I never thought that would be the case.
Doctor :   get involved in long foreplay
User :   Okay. I will do that :)
User :   Thank you for the reassurance. I was worried.
Doctor :   the anxiety you have now can worsen it , hence do not worry much
Doctor :   its very reversible and curable
User :   okay. I will try to relax. :)
Doctor :   And you have to have a good conversation during the foreplay , i mean motivation and praise
User :   Should I take any supplements or anything?
Doctor :   avoid Viagra
User :   okay
Doctor :   Avoid Condom and use other methods of contraception if intended
User :   ok
Doctor :   Have good energetic food / drink just before the act
Doctor :   this al will help for sure
Doctor :   Keep your confidence levels high
User :   okay, can do
User :   I have a tendancy to over-think things
Doctor :   Is there anything i9 can help you with ?>
User :   I think i was thinking too much, maybe
Doctor :   yes, do not be more anxious it will worsen the problem
User :   You've been very helpful. I'm glad it isn't anything major.
Doctor :   Your welcome
Doctor :   Thanks for consulting me , kindly provide your feedback
User :   I will. Thanks
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