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Date : 21-Feb-2012
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User :   sexual counseling and quick ejaculation
Doctor :   Hi I am Dr. xxxxx
Doctor :   Please proceed further with your explnation
User :   hi
User :   i am 30 yr old married
User :   man
User :   i have been facing problems in having a long erection
Doctor :   ok
User :   i consulted a doctor in xxxxx
Doctor :   OK
User :   and carried out madical tests
Doctor :   ok
User :   like TMT, penile dopler
Doctor :   ok
User :   and was diagnised that the flow of blood to the pennis is lower than expected
User :   and was prescribed
Doctor :   ok
Doctor :   what they suggested
User :   lycobal OD, and XEt 10 mg
User :   which i took for almost 3 months
Doctor :   ok
User :   that did improve my condition but still i am at the most able to do 4 or 5 strokes during intercourse and then i ejaculate
User :   i have a couple of doubts
Doctor :   Go ahead
User :   is PE curable completely ?
Doctor :   Alright it depends on the cause
User :   ok
Doctor :   First let me ask you few Qs
User :   ok
Doctor :   Do you have erections problem or prematre ejaculation problem
User :   i have premature ejaculation problem
Doctor :   How long you can able to hold the erections
User :   3 or 5 strokes
Doctor :   ARe you getting enough stiffness to satisfy?
User :   after vaginal intercourse
Doctor :   ok
User :   stiffness is there, but not able to last long
Doctor :   SO as soon as after 3-4 strokes u r ejaculating
User :   yes
Doctor :   Premature ejaculation problem is fixable
User :   ok
Doctor :   It is better than Erection problem
Doctor :   PE needs lot of training
User :   how long does a normal male last his erection
User :   ok
Doctor :   and need to correct the causes first
User :   ok
Doctor :   It last up to 10 min
User :   ok
Doctor :   may be 7-10 min
Doctor :   but you can give min 10-15 strokes
User :   ok
Doctor :   I will ask u few Qs to find out the causes which I may help and correct
User :   ok
Doctor :   What work u do?
Doctor :   How many hours u work?
User :   i work as a sales execuive and involves travelling on bike
User :   9 hrs i work a day
Doctor :   Are you stressed out
User :   i am stressed not becuase of work but thinking that i am incapable
Doctor :   I understand
Doctor :   ARe you relaxed before going for intercourse?
User :   yes
Doctor :   Do you perdorm lot of genital stimulation?
Doctor :   *perform
User :   yes with my wife
User :   else she is not able to get orgasm
Doctor :   yes
Doctor :   Do u smoke or drink alcohol
User :   hence we start and i do oral to her and once she is done i insert and do a couple of strokes
User :   i used to smoke, use pan and all sort of nonsenses and yes i drink minimum once in a week
Doctor :   Do not drink before intercourse
Doctor :   You may not have control
User :   no never before an intercourse i have drunk
Doctor :   Here I give you few tips.
User :   during my initial marriage days
User :   i was facing so much problem that even during wearing a condom i used to burst
User :   after taking lycobal od and xet the situation improved
Doctor :   Ok
User :   pls go ahead wtih ur tips
Doctor :   Continue the medicines . Along with the med follow the tips.
Initially these tips look simple but they are the solutions for permanent management
Doctor :   1. follow stop and squeez technique
User :   ok
Doctor :   Do u know abt this?
User :   no
Doctor :   U can practice this with masturbation or with real sex
User :   wat is it
Doctor :   Masturbate untill u get full erection .OK
Doctor :   When u r about to get the ejaculation stop masturbating
Doctor :   OK
User :   ok
Doctor :   Immediately squeeze the Penis tighly with index and thumb
Doctor :   Stop the ejaculation
Doctor :   Then you will loose erections
Doctor :   Do you follow untill this?
User :   press where the edge of the pennis?
Doctor :   Yes
User :   yes
Doctor :   Presss the head and shaft
Doctor :   U can use all fingers
User :   how do i do this in case of real sex?
Doctor :   but most imp part is HEAD
Doctor :   Ater u loose erections again start masturbating
Doctor :   Repeat this few times
Doctor :   And test your efiiciency
User :   how often do i do this
Doctor :   U will definitely delay, voluntarily
Doctor :   May be 3-4 times wk
User :   ok
Doctor :   Then ur real sex will be in trouble
Doctor :   but I will tell how to do with real sex
User :   ok
Doctor :   But it needs lot of cooperation from wife
Doctor :   Do more genital stimulation
User :   ok
Doctor :   Try not to use your penis
Doctor :   You stimulate her
Doctor :   and you get erections
User :   ok
User :   ok
Doctor :   This way u will 50% satify her
User :   ok
Doctor :   Other 50% is real penetration
Doctor :   DO not perform much oral sex
User :   why is that so?
Doctor :   you loose lot of sensitivity in the action
Doctor :   you are wasting erections there
Doctor :   Instead spend the time of erections in rel vaginal intercourse
User :   but is there any issues on me doing oral sex on my wife
Doctor :   You can do oral sex only to get erections
Doctor :   u can do it
Doctor :   u do it to get erection
Doctor :   but if u spend much time u have less time for vaginal pentration
User :   ok
Doctor :   Just do oral sex to get erections but do notplay much time
Doctor :   Now
Doctor :   While doing vaginal intercourse, stop intermittently
User :   ok
Doctor :   do it in slow action
User :   ok
Doctor :   when u r abt to get the ejaculation take it out
User :   ok
Doctor :   walk in hall
User :   ok
Doctor :   and focus ur mind on some thing else
Doctor :   I know u loose erections
User :   but wouldn't that spoil her mood
Doctor :   U can tell her u ca perform more by doing this way
User :   for my wife it takes almost 30 mintues of oral stimulation to reach climax
Doctor :   Tell her u will spend more time in penetration if u do not ejaculate
Doctor :   There u go
Doctor :   U r wasting your lot of sensitivity of penis in iral sex
Doctor :   *oral
User :   i mean she does not do oral sex on me rather i do it for her
Doctor :   Why dont you do vaginal stimulation instead of oral
Doctor :   I know
Doctor :   Do u follow
User :   how is pennis sensitivity lost if i perform oral sex on her
Doctor :   The penis has sensitive mucosa and nerves
Doctor :   its stimulation cause ejeaculation
User :   ok
User :   what are the other tips
Doctor :   I suggest do more vaginal stimulation
User :   ok
Doctor :   and make her get climax
Doctor :   You can openly discuss the matter with her
User :   ok
Doctor :   You can ask her to squeeze ur penis
Doctor :   but as I told u she need to understand
User :   ok
Doctor :   2. Use DELAY CEAM
Doctor :   U can get in pharmacy
User :   such as?
User :   suggest a few names
Doctor :   it will delay the sensory stimulation of penile mucosa
Doctor :   Name it iself is " DELAY"
User :   ok
User :   continue
Doctor :   ok
Doctor :   NOW to know how to satisfy your wife
User :   ok
Doctor :   you need to know a few details ablut the sexual anatomy and the site of the clitoris
User :   little bit
Doctor :   stimulation of the clitoris using KY jelly with your finger and orally, will get her excited
User :   can u pls explain me in detail step by step how normal healthy couple have sex?
Doctor :   You have to be open in yor sexual behavior for to have good sex
Doctor :   having inhibitions and feeling inadequate in your relation cn hurt both of you
User :   ok
Doctor :   both of you should feel very comfortable and just presence of each other should be comforting , so that even in the lack of sex, u should not have any grugdes
Doctor :   when u have such a relation, a great sexual life results
User :   ok
User :   what i asked is how is normal sex done
Doctor :   a mutual bonding relation helps to have a great sex life
User :   is it that normal men are able to give sexual pleasure to partner by vaginal intercourse
Doctor :   yes definitely , about 50 % women are satisfied by vaginal intercourse
User :   hmm
Doctor :   but 70 % have satisfaction by a combinaiton of vagianl penetrative intercourse and direct clitoral stimulation wither manully or orallly
User :   is there any medicine
Doctor :   medicine for what ?
User :   which can cure my problem for life
User :   my quick ejaculation problem
Doctor :   ok
Doctor :   premature ejacualtion is not a physical problem
User :   i want to be able to stroke continously for 10 minutes
Doctor :   it is a problem of not being trained
User :   but my penile doppler say blood flow is less
Doctor :   just like a baby does not know a language when it is born , men dont know how to have great sex by birth
Doctor :   you learn it by practice
Doctor :   now for ur problem , masturbate 30 min before sex
Doctor :   so that your anxiety is removed
User :   can u suggest any doc in chennai whom i can consult personally
Doctor :   also ask your wofe to masturbate instead of yu
User :   ok
Doctor :   you can find lot of sexologists on our website page
User :   anyone u know personally
Doctor :   also u can use penile rings available on the internet for the current problem
Doctor :   Im sorry i practice in xxxxxx
User :   gimme ur address
Doctor :   and have no connections in chennai, Im very sorry about this
Doctor :   I will drop a mail to u regarding ho w to achive a great sex luife
Doctor :   You will recive a mail on your email ID WITHIN 24 HRS

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