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Cure for erection problem. depression. - Online Doctor Chats

Date : 21-Feb-2012
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User :   hi
Doctor :   hi
Doctor :   Dr. XXXXXXXX here.
User :   good evening
Doctor :   please proceed with your health query
User :   im having sexual problem
User :   and depression
User :   im very worried
Doctor :   ok. please describe your problem in detail.
User :   i get lot of stress
User :   im not getting fully sexual desire
User :   feeling weakness while doing sex
Doctor :   may I ask what is the reason for stress?
User :   i dont know
User :   always negative thoughts are coming
Doctor :   what kind of weakness are you feeling? could you describe in detail for me to analyse your problem better?
User :   while at work also
User :   erectile problem
Doctor :   i will need to ask you few more questions to get the details for your problem. Can I proceed?
User :   yes
Doctor :   is there any problem with achieveing erection?
User :   yes
Doctor :   is there any problem in maintaining erection? once you have erect penis, how long can you sustain it?
User :   only for some time
Doctor :   do you masturbate? if yes what is the frequency?
User :   yes i used to masturbate a lot
Doctor :   normal erection time can vary between 2-6.5 minutes
User :   once in two days
Doctor :   are you married?
User :   yes
User :   in may
Doctor :   ok. do you have night time erections? (apart from having intercourse)
User :   what should i do
User :   sometime
Doctor :   do you have early morning erections (apart from having intercourse) ?
User :   but im getting weakness
User :   rare
User :   what should i go for this
Doctor :   ok. were you getting them earlier?
Doctor :   since when are you facing these problems?
User :   no
User :   around 6 months
Doctor :   please provide your age, height and weight.
User :   age 28
User :   height 164
User :   weight 80
Doctor :   are the stress levels increased since last 6 months?
User :   yes
User :   what should i do to treat this
Doctor :   is is due to office work or due to personal problems?
User :   please help
User :   due to stess
User :   i comes automatically
Doctor :   if you had been having proper erections before then the problems you are faced with now could be psychological, and once you learn to control them, your problem will be solved
User :   plz advice
User :   how to learn this
Doctor :   follow this steps
User :   ok sir
Doctor :   1) get an examination done by a urologist to make sure there is no organic or serious problems.
User :   from where and how much it costs
Doctor :   2) try to relax yourself before intercourse, empty your mind especially with thoughts about your performance.
User :   ok
Doctor :   where are you located? I will try to help you to locate urologist in nearest city
User :   btm layout
User :   1st stage
User :   what should i do for depression
User :   im very much worried
Doctor :   3) try the 'start and stop technique"
Doctor :   it involves strict self control and determination.
User :   how to do this
Doctor :   what you need to do in this is do not let ejaculation happen
User :   is smoking one cigrette harful
Doctor :   control it and go back to foreplay if needed, instead of continuing with vaginal intercourse whne you feel you are almost going to ejaculate
User :   after intercouse also?
Doctor :   it will help you to prolong your erection time
User :   ok
User :   is smoking harmful
Doctor :   it has to be done during intercourse, not after it
User :   i smoke one or two cigg a day
Doctor :   smoking is harmful, it will lead to premature ejaculation and erection problems
Doctor :   try to quit smoking
User :   if i smoke one cig then also it is harmful?
Doctor :   it also affects sperm quantity and quality.
User :   how to stop smoking
Doctor :   once you overcome these your depression also will be tackled
Doctor :   you can consult a psychologist to combat and help with your depression
User :   plz advice how to stop
User :   give me some dr in btm
Doctor :   quitting cigarettes again depends on your will power and determination
User :   whom should i consult
Doctor :   pls give me a moment
User :   is it good to quit>?
User :   ok sir
Doctor :   do not close this window or move away
User :   ok
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Doctor :   visit these links to locate a urologist or a sexologist in your area of location
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