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Counselling to overcome personal problem - Online Doctor Chats

Date : 13-Jan-2012
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Doctor :   hi
Doctor :   how can i help
Doctor :   u
User :   hello sir
User :   hello sir.
Doctor :   go ahead with the query
User :   i m engineer
Doctor :   ok
User :   i am having a female friend since 3 yrs we knew each other
Doctor :   ok
User :   i liked her and proposed her before 1and half yr
Doctor :   ok
User :   she was having a boy frnd during college, she had only told me about that.. and i didnt mind that
Doctor :   ok
User :   she also liked ,me
Doctor :   ok
Doctor :   For health purposes I need this information--Age: Gender: Occupation: Location: Marital Status: User :   Age:25, male, Engineer
Doctor :   ok
User :   , single
User :   first she hesitated saying that she dont want to fall in all complications again
Doctor :   ok
User :   and wil get married according to her dad's wish only, she is not having mother
Doctor :   ok
User :   but still when our friendship grew further and i started talking to other girls also, she was attracted more towards me
Doctor :   ok
User :   she said her father will not like her to marry a boy of same qualification and earning almost same. i was also planning to go for further studies, MBA
Doctor :   ok
User :   so we thought if i could go for higher studies her father might agree and we can get married... still she always used to say that please dont waste ur life for me u will get a better girl and all that and our relation ship grew too
Doctor :   ok]
User :   she used help me in prepartion also... and she thought she also can try for the same so she also started preparing along with me
User :   and we used to go out on weekends for 1-2 hrs and have dinner etc
Doctor :   ok
User :   then we started studying together at my room too.. i m having one room mate and we all work in the same company so that was not problem,, slow we had some physical intimacy also
Doctor :   ok
User :   but we never had sex or something of that sort
User :   but after a few months she got some project in
Doctor :   ok
Doctor :   ok
Doctor :   We have a long queue of patients waiting to get medical advise. Please restrict your conversation to Medical queries only.
User :   ok sir but my prob is psychological so i need to say everyithing
Doctor :   sure u can
User :   if i m wrong place then please infor me
Doctor :   carry on
User :   ok.. so before going to she came to meet me. we stayed in the same room whole night
Doctor :   ok
User :   i mean to say we were having quite close relations
Doctor :   k
User :   after her returning back for shortterm from again we stayed for 4-5 days at my room just like husband wife
Doctor :   ok
Doctor :   I can understand your problem. However, since I am a general practitioner I may not be able to help you much with this. You will have to speak to a qualified specialist who will be able to help you out with this problem.
Doctor :   We offer to fix up an appointment with the specialist to talk to you over phone or chat with you on internet. That will be a paid service.
User :   ok..
User :   can i get some information regarding that?
Doctor :   sure we can help u
Doctor :   out
Doctor :   we can arrange for counsellor
Doctor :   for u
Doctor :   he can help u overcome
User :   ok
Doctor :   the personal problem
Doctor :   could u confirm ur details
Doctor :   YYYY@YYYY
Mobile : 0000
User :   and how much will be the service charges for that approximately?
User :   yes thats right
Doctor :   depends the counselor who sees us
Doctor :   he will let u know
User :   ok
Doctor :   could u please confirm ur details given above
Doctor :   ok
Doctor :   One of our doctors will get back to you soon with all the relevant details.
User :   thanks a lot
Doctor :   Please fill this form I send, and say done when done.
Have you filled the form which I have sent?
Doctor :   ur welcome
Doctor :   Thanks for consulting Health care magic. Bye for now.
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