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Cause of loosing interest in sexual activity - Online Doctor Chats

Date : 13-Jan-2012
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Practicing since : 2004
Answered : 40 Questions
Doctor :   Hi sushant
User :   Hi Dr.
Doctor :   How can I help you?
User :   As this is online chat can i discuss something very personal problem with u?
Doctor :   You can discuss a medical problem
User :   OK can i discuss a personal medical problem
User :   May i know your name please.
Doctor :   yes
User :   I am newly married but very rarely i feel the urge to have sex... why is that so.. I am tensed becaus eof this..
Doctor :   To get a better picture I need this information--
Age: ; Occupation: User :   I am 25 and I work in a market research firm. there i sno work pressure and i have a decent work also.
Doctor :   Do you smoke/drink alcohol/Any other habits?
If yes how much/how often?
User :   No I dont smoke , no drinks and i dont have any bad habbit..
Doctor :   how long have you been married?
User :   11 months..
Doctor :   when you do have sex do you have any erection problems? or any other problems..
User :   its like my parter tries to do foreplay with me but rarely i get excited and get errection..
Doctor :   Ok- so just to clarify that I have understood your problem correctly- you have no interest in having sex- and you have problems with getting an erection as well...
Doctor :   or is it that you are ready mentally- but face problems in having an erection?
User :   can i put this in other words.. i basically have no interest in having sex but i dont think os i have errection problem.
Doctor :   ok
Doctor :   have you had sex before marriage?
User :   No
Doctor :   or have you/ do you masturbate?
User :   sometimes i do..
Doctor :   how often?
User :   say ones in a 3 or 4 days
Doctor :   Do you have any other health problems? Asthma/allergies etc?
User :   Nothing i dont have any other problem
User :   to add to this we stay alone, there is no one at home other than we two!
Doctor :   did this problem start immediately after you marriage- or did it start recently?
User :   like i enjoyed my honeymoon of 15 days. in that it was not like everyday sex! but now I dont have any interest only..
Doctor :   this is a very personal question- pls answer this as honestly as possible- are you sexually attracted to your wife? do you have any other fantasies or sexual attractions?
User :   Here starts the problem.. i am not.. i get very attracted to fat guys who are hairy and have big and thick mustaches..

User :   u hit the bulls eye!!!
Doctor :   ok
Doctor :   Well - I think I remember- chatting with you earlier - some time back
User :   No I am sorry this is the first time i have logged into this site. actually i came to know abt this only yesterday.. i got an sms.
Doctor :   Ok
Doctor :   You will need to speak to a counsellor/ psychiatrist about this problem and they will be able to help you out;
User :   can you suggest me something..rather than going to a psychiatrist
Doctor :   it will require patience from your side as it will involve a lot of talking and counseling
User :   ok i am ready for it..
Doctor :   you will need to speak to a qualified counselor -
User :   can i chat with him now if possible..
Doctor :   It is a paid service for which you will need to take a prior appointment
User :   how much i will be charged for chatting with an psychiartist
Doctor :   A doctor from our medical team will get back to you with the details
Doctor :   Could I confirm your contact details so that we can get back to you . Your identity will be kept completely confidential.
User :   my email id is YYYY@YYYY
Doctor :   ok
User :   my contact no is 0000
User :   who will contact me
User :   ?
Doctor :   Dr. will contact you with the details
User :   can you assure me that this will be kept secret?
Doctor :   Your identity and details will be kept completely confidential.
User :   will it be over phone as i dont want to meet anyone for discussing this problem
Doctor :   yes- we will arrange a chat/phone consultation as per your choice
User :   what will be the charges?
Doctor :   Rs. 999 for the first two sessions
User :   how long will be the sessions?
Doctor :   the counselor will decide that- it will be for 3-45 minutes
User :   ok.when will be the session
Doctor :   and he will advice you on how many more sessions/ etc may be needed
Doctor :   Dr. Abhilash will call you with the details
User :   is he a specialist?
Doctor :   yes
Doctor :   Is there anything else I can help you with?
User :   ok i want the session to be consducted durng the next week
Doctor :   ok- it will be arranged once Dr. Abhilash speaks to you and the payment is received
Doctor :   Is there anything else I can help you with?
User :   no thanks..
Doctor :   ok
Doctor :   Bye for now
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