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Attraction to elderly men with fat stomach and mustaches. - Online Doctor Chats

Date : 13-Jan-2012
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Doctor :   Hi
User :   Hi Dr.
Doctor :   How can I help you
User :   How are you doing?
User :   Before I proceed Can i know your name and location?
Doctor :   Im good thanks, yourself?
User :   I am doing fine.
Doctor :   I'm Dr. from XXXXXX
User :   okay
User :   are you an psychologist?
Doctor :   No
User :   i mean an psychiatrist
Doctor :   i'm a General Physician
User :   will you be able to address an psychologial issue?
Doctor :   I can give you general advice, Yes- but for appropriate advice and treatment - you will need to see the appropriate specialist
Doctor :   that is a psychiatrist / psychologist
User :   Ok i trust you and ask you my very personal problem
Doctor :   alright
Doctor :   pls go ahead...
User :   okay
User :   From the past three years I am very much attracted to guys with fat tummy and mustaches. I fantacise them... I am married for the past 10 months now...
Doctor :   how old are you?
Doctor :   are you able to see what I'm typing?
User :   i am 27 yers old
Doctor :   Do you have a proper sexual relationship with your wife or are you having any problems with that?
User :   No i am having a very healthy sexual relation with my partner.
Doctor :   ok
User :   sometimes I feel am I GAY?
Doctor :   See- the definition of gay is men who are attracted only to other men- if you are having a normal sexual relation with your wife- a woman- it is unlikely
User :   then why do i fantacise them. i fell like having a sexual relation with them.
Doctor :   emotions and attractions are a very complex and often very difficult to understand
User :   do u ever feel how i feel?
Doctor :   But this is a problem which will require you to speak at length over a prolonged period of time with a qualified therapist
User :   I am very scared to go to any specialist and discuss this issue
Doctor :   you should not feel scared to speak to a specialist- as they will keep your details absolutely confidential - and they will be able to help you out
User :   one more strange thing in my behaviour is that i get attracted to only elderly males and who are very hairy....
Doctor :   sexual orientation is the result of a combination of environmental, emotional, hormonal, and biological factors
Doctor :   it is too complex to be discussed properly with any one but a qualified the tharpist,
Doctor :   therapist
Doctor :   *
Doctor :   You will need to find a specialist who can help you out - if you are in XXXXXX you can use the search docotrs feature on our home page to find the therapists in your area
Doctor :   I will not be able to help you out further on this
Doctor :   Is there anything else I can help you with?
Doctor :   Thanks for consulting Health care magic. Bye for now.
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