Welcome to the forum. It seems you have sensitive skin and have metal allergy
. Avoid wearing magnetic earings made of nickle and other metals that cause you such discomfort.
You can take antiallergics/antihistaminics, it will help you feel better. You can apply medicated oitments like neosporin
Get your ear lobes examined by a dermatologist
, you may need some oral antibiotics
to get rid of the inflammation and balls that are troubling you. Take care.