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We understand your concerns
I went through your description. You are just 35 and cannot have incontinence
. You cannot loose control over your urine bladder.
Yes. Sometimes accidents do happen,. Just believe that accident happened in your life in that particular situation. that should be good.
Due to excess sweating in the genital region can also cause wet bed linen. I believe that this is true in your case.
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