Hi, I had sex after many years recently (1 week ago) and he couldn't enter me. It hurt, bad. I was tense, nervous and feel I caused some of this. He tried other things to make me happy sexually but now I am completely sore, hurts to urinate. I'm in misery. I've soaked, it feels better, then starts all over. Why couldn't I have intercourse? Did he rub me raw?