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What To Do For Extending The Time During Sex?
I am zahid 29 from jaipur i saw your ad in times of india today. Actually i am suffering from sexual problems for a couple of years. i have consulted many hakim and waids earlier but i am not satisfied with their treatment. To be frank, I have been an addict of masturbation in teenage and i would do it in every 3 days but after 20 i reduced it to once in a week. I still masturbate 4 times a month as i am not yet married due to financial problems. Honestly speaking, i am not a virgin and i often have tuff-time when i have sex with my gfrnd. For the last 6 months i have been with her but i find myself very weak during sex. i feel a sort of weakness in my back while i give strokes and within a minute i discharge, breath fast and feel extream tiredness. Its the time when she needs some more and i find myself unable to fulfill her wish. Secondly, my penis does not stand firmly and for the last 4 years its getting horizontal and soft erraction though it had vertical erraction before. it cannot stand constantly from foreplay to discharge i have to make it stand again and again, that sounds quit shameful for a man before a woman. please suggest me what to do.
Tue, 27 Jan 2015
my opinion is that you should not worry about it you can start of with multivitamin tablets and have good balanced food, exercise regularly
besides all this I suggest my patients the following…..
1.Practice and relaxation technique
2. try to distract yourself by thinking nonsexual thoughts (such as talking about some good films or games) to avoid getting excited too fast.
3. "stop and start" method:
during sexually stimulating activities when you feel like you are about to reach orgasm. Stop the stimulation for about 30 seconds and then start it again. Repeat this pattern until you want to ejaculate. The last time, continue stimulation until the you reache orgasm.
4. The "squeeze" method:
ask your partner to gently squeezes the end of the penis (where the glans meets the shaft) for several seconds when you fell to ejaculate. Stop sexual stimulation for about 30 seconds, and then start it again. you can repeat this pattern until the you want to ejaculate.
You can apply a local anesthetic cream to the penis to reduce stimulation. Decreased feeling in the penis may delay ejaculation. Condom use may also have this effect .
medicines are available in market, i will advice you first to follow and practice these methods
Hope I have answered your question. If you have any further questions I will be happy to help.
wish you a good health
besides all this I suggest my patients the following…..
1.Practice and relaxation technique
2. try to distract yourself by thinking nonsexual thoughts (such as talking about some good films or games) to avoid getting excited too fast.
3. "stop and start" method:
during sexually stimulating activities when you feel like you are about to reach orgasm. Stop the stimulation for about 30 seconds and then start it again. Repeat this pattern until you want to ejaculate. The last time, continue stimulation until the you reache orgasm.
4. The "squeeze" method:
ask your partner to gently squeezes the end of the penis (where the glans meets the shaft) for several seconds when you fell to ejaculate. Stop sexual stimulation for about 30 seconds, and then start it again. you can repeat this pattern until the you want to ejaculate.
You can apply a local anesthetic cream to the penis to reduce stimulation. Decreased feeling in the penis may delay ejaculation. Condom use may also have this effect .
medicines are available in market, i will advice you first to follow and practice these methods
Hope I have answered your question. If you have any further questions I will be happy to help.
wish you a good health
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