Hello I share your concern Looking at your history, this could be dyspareunia In my opinion you need to consult a gynaecologist for examination and a battery of tests to find out the underlying cause for this which could be related Infection or inflammation of the uterovaginal axis Another possibility is injury during sex may be due to dryness of vagina which can develop near menopause Meanwhile you should take antispasmodic like dicyclomine with anti inflammatory group of drugs as ibuprofen Maintain good hygiene Hot water bath may help you Use lubricants during sex Hope this answers your question Regards