Hi..
Welcome to Healthcare Magic..
I have gone through your query and can very well understand your health concerns..
As per your query a red swollen big lump on the top of the lip seems to be due to causes like hair
follicle infection or foliculitis, swollen gland in the area etc..
I would suggest you to apply a combination of antibiotic and
steroid ointment ointment over it..
You should do cool compresses 3 to 4 times a day..
Avoid scratching or touching the bump again and again to prevent infection spread..
Clean the area with antiseptic solution..
In case if it does not resolve or worsen consult a General Physician and get evaluated..
Hope this information helps..
Thanks and regards..
Dr.Honey Nandwani Arora..