I get bitten by spiders once to twice most years. I am very lucky to go a year without being bitten. The bites usually start out to look like I have been pricked with a pin. The site will usually swell, turn very red, the center of the bite comes out, sometimes it will ooze the liquified flesh from the poision and the site is very painful. I have had my bites on several occasions confirmed by a doctor. My husband has never been bitten by a spider. What attracks spiders to some people more than others?