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Bartholin glands are located on each side of the vaginal opening and secrete fluid that lubricate the vagina.
Sometimes the openings of these glands become obstructed, causing fluid to back up into the gland.
Most of the times, there is no underlying cause for an enlarged bartholin gland.
Enlarged bartholin gland's is a complication of acute
gonorrhea but in that case it is usually painful. Therefore I don't think gonorrhea is causing it to enlarge in your case.
Moreover, a self resolving enlarged gland is unlikely to be because of gonorrhea.
Usually it presents as a painless lump, which may come and go. Sitz bath help resolve an enlarged gland.
At times, the fluid within the
cyst may become infected, resulting in pus surrounded by inflamed tissue (
abscess).
Treatment of a greatly enlarged and painful bartholin gland is usually draining them away Or marsupialization, after treatment with a course of an oral antibiotics
I suggest you to visit a specialist for a confirmatory diagnosis and appropriate treatment.
Regards