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What Causes Lack Of Sex Drive?

I AM 47 YEARS OLD. I HAVE HAD SEXUAL PROBLEMS FROM THE TIME I WAS A TEENAGER. I HAVE NEVER REALLY KNOWN WHAT A SEX DRIVE FEELS LIKE. I HAVE ALWAYS HAD PROBLEMS GETTING ERECTIONS. SOME HOW I HAVE MADE IT TO 47 WITH TWO GREAT SONS. BUT NOW MY PROBLEM HAS GOTTEN WORSE. PHYSICAL STIMULATION HAS ALWAYS BEEN WHAT IT TOOK FOR ME TO GET AN ERECTION. NOW THIS DOES NOT EVEN WORK. I HAVE TRIED VIAGRA AND ALL THE OTHER MEDS THEY HAVE. I STILL HAVE NO SEX DRIVE. I AM NOW GETTING CHARLIE HORSES IN THE BACK OF BOTH LEGS WHEN I TRY TO GET AN ERECTION. I STILL ONLY COME UP HALF WAY AND WHEN I DO HAVE AN ORGASM THE CHARLIE HORSES GET VERY INTENSE. I HAVE YET TO FIND A DOCTOR THAT CAN HELP ME. PLEASE HELP !
Fri, 21 Nov 2014
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Hello,

Thank you for writing to HCM,

I had gone through your query and would like to advice you that you cant say that its a lack of sex drive. It should be treat easily because as you mentioned you have 2 sons.

While having sex i would like to suggest you to go for foreplay and Oral sex first before you go for intercourse because it will help for pre cum and also you and your partner will have more pleasure than normal intercourse.

Even your sex desire will increase because of that and for more you may have to use different position of sex. It may gives you more satisfaction and even more excitement and total pleasure than normal intercourse and even you will spend more time in sex.

Still if you had any queries you may concern a good doctor for more help, they may suggest you better.

Hope you will find it helpful.

Thanks & Regards,
Dr. Gaurav Prajapati
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What Causes Lack Of Sex Drive?

Hello, Thank you for writing to HCM, I had gone through your query and would like to advice you that you cant say that its a lack of sex drive. It should be treat easily because as you mentioned you have 2 sons. While having sex i would like to suggest you to go for foreplay and Oral sex first before you go for intercourse because it will help for pre cum and also you and your partner will have more pleasure than normal intercourse. Even your sex desire will increase because of that and for more you may have to use different position of sex. It may gives you more satisfaction and even more excitement and total pleasure than normal intercourse and even you will spend more time in sex. Still if you had any queries you may concern a good doctor for more help, they may suggest you better. Hope you will find it helpful. Thanks & Regards, Dr. Gaurav Prajapati