Hi Welcome to HEALTHCARE MAGIC.. I have gone through your query and can understand your concern. Common causes for a loss of sexual desire and drive in women include: 1. Job stress, peer pressure, and media images of sexuality can negatively influence sexual desire. 2. Partner performance problems, lack of emotional satisfaction with the relationship, the birth of a child, and becoming a caregiver for a loved one can decrease sexual desire. 3.Low Testosterone affects sexual drive in both men and women. 4.Medical problems: Mental illnesses such as depression, or medical conditions, such as endometriosis, fibroids, and thyroid disorders, impact a woman s sexual drive both mentally and physically. 5.Medications : Certain antidepressants, blood pressure lowering drugs, and oral contraceptives can lower sexual drive. 6.Age. Blood levels of androgens fall continuously in women as they age. Don t worry you would be fine Hope this information helps.