Hi,
As you have mentioned Blood sugar levels of your boy friend, all Blood sugar level reading are normal, there is no evidence of
diabetes.
For diagnosis of diabetes one of the following criteria need to be full filled
1) Oral
glucose tolerance test Fasting Blood sugar level more than 125 and/or 2hours post glucose blood sugar level more than 200.
2) HbA1c level more than 6.5.
3) Symptomatic for diabetes ie increased frequency of urination, unusual thirst, unusual hunger,
weight loss, along with this random blood sugar levels more than 200.
Whatever symptoms mentioned by you like
disorientation, slurred speech, abnormal shakiness, light headeness do not denote Diabetes.
Taking in to consideration of profession of your boy friend it looks like a possibility of
anxiety.
Better to consult another doctor during period of symptoms or you can make video during symptomatic period.