Hello dear Welcome to Healthcaremagic.com I have gone through your concern in depth . @ Pain may be associated with or without urinary infection as inadequate relaxation of vagina , anxiety induced spasms @ Causes of frequent UTI during intercourse are - transmission of bacteria as E.coli and others - use of certain irritating feminine products as powders or sprays - retaining urine long time after intercourse - organisms of herpes , gonorrhea , chlamydia , mycoplasma etc - improper hygiene of private parts - inadequate water intake in much hurry of conceiving - others Hope this will help you definitely . Feel free to ask any further queries in future anytime . Thanks for so much peaceful evaluation of my answer . Regards dear take care .