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What Causes Erectile Dysfunction?

Hi,My name is Max and i think there is problem with me.I am 23 yrs old and getting an erection wasn't a problem with me.I tried to have sex the last time and loose my erection.since then i can have sex the first and when i want to have the second sex,it takes about 30 -45 minutes to get an erection.i keep on thinking of loosing my erection.i want to stop thinking and make my partner happy.Please i need your help.
Thu, 24 Sep 2015
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Welcome to HCM
We understand your concerns

I went through your details. You tried to have sex last time and lost the erection. Then on you are thinking about loosing your erection. Because of this negative thinking and obsession, you are having this erectile dysfunction. First of all you should stop worrying about sex, erection, loss of erection, failure in sexual act etc. These issues are part of your life, not life is part of these aspects. Leave them alone. Even if you don't have sex, nothing will happen. If you keep that mindset, automatically your erection will stand. Should take time, but possible. Please consult a psychologist for counseling and behavioral therapy. You may post a direct question to me if you desire so.

If you require more of my help in this aspect, please use this URL. http://goo.gl/aYW2pR. Make sure that you include every minute details possible.

Hope this answers your query. Available for further clarifications.
Good luck. Take care.
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What Causes Erectile Dysfunction?

Dear Welcome to HCM We understand your concerns I went through your details. You tried to have sex last time and lost the erection. Then on you are thinking about loosing your erection. Because of this negative thinking and obsession, you are having this erectile dysfunction. First of all you should stop worrying about sex, erection, loss of erection, failure in sexual act etc. These issues are part of your life, not life is part of these aspects. Leave them alone. Even if you don t have sex, nothing will happen. If you keep that mindset, automatically your erection will stand. Should take time, but possible. Please consult a psychologist for counseling and behavioral therapy. You may post a direct question to me if you desire so. If you require more of my help in this aspect, please use this URL. http://goo.gl/aYW2pR. Make sure that you include every minute details possible. Hope this answers your query. Available for further clarifications. Good luck. Take care.