Dear Welcome to HCM We understand your concerns I went through your details. I suggest you not to worry much. You are right. PTSD and ADHD are disorders which are caused due to change in neural signal structure. Prolonged exposure to stress promps brain to emit signals which triggers stress buster hormones. Continuous stress means continuous presence of these hormones in the body. Body metabolism changes whole. When the stress creating situation stops, body cannot tolerate the absense of those hormones and withdrawal symptom occurs and that is PTSD. ADHD is more of a pure hormonal or genetical origin. The reflexes are bad or so aggressive. Anger is prominent and easy. Don t worry Psychotherapy and relaxation techniques can be used to cure your wife. Please post a direct question to me in this website. Make sure that you include every minute details possible. I shall prescribe some psychotherapy techniques which should help you cure your condition. Hope this answers your query. Available for further clarifications. Good luck.