Hi. According to your history you have already suffered a lot . Get one internal scan (TVS) to know the present status of affairs.
As you had 3 major surgeries- appendix
, gut anastomosis
and ectopic, ther might be lot of adhesions inside your abdomen and disturbed tubo-ovarian relationship.also the reason for your first ectopic can be chlamydia infection
. Was the tube removed and there is always a chance for recurrent ectopic.
So not many options left. You have already taken chance for 6 years. Ther might be tubal blockage.
Best thing acc. to me will be get yourself investigated for the cause of recurrent abortions, go in for laparoscopy
and consult your gynecologist for further options.