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Virgin, afraid of sex due to severe pain. How can I break virginity without sexual intercourse?

hi doc, i am virgin and married two weeks ago. i cant have sex with my husband because i am afraid of the pain. i once tried to have sex, i felt so much pain. since that time i don t want to try having sex. my marriage is at the critical condition due to that. please how can i break my virginity without sexual intercourse and without feeling any pain? thanks!
Asked On : Thu, 27 Dec 2012
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Radiologist 's  Response
May 2014
Hi,
Thanks for writing in.

Virginity is a social term applied to a lady who has never had penetrative sex. What you are having is vaginismus, spasm of the muscles in the vagina which give you pain when you try to have penetrative sex with your partner. You both could sit together and talk out your problems. Please indulge in longer foreplay and use plenty of lubrication. If you are still not able to accept sex please consult a psychiatrist or family therapist to guide both of you.

Hope this helps.
Answered: Tue, 9 Jul 2013
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