Thank you for asking HCM
I have gone through your query.Fordyce spots
are harmless.I usually advise ointments
multivitamins and recommend them to take lot of green veggies garlic and avocado.Your vaginal lips swelling is most likely bartholinitis.I advise my patients for this with antibiotics and also recommend to use intimate wash regularly to normalize vaginal bacterial flora and PH and there by prevent getting further infections.Hope this may help you.
Let me know if you have any further query.