Hi there ~
You seem to be trying to actively get her pregnant while she seems to be actively resisting it. I think she is not pregnant from the history that you have given me. It would however be in both of your interests to have her take a urine pregnancy
test to confirm or negate the pregnancy. Please discuss with a family counselor or a sexologist
whoever is appropriate for you to conceive.
I hope this helps. Take care and have a nice day !